Do you wear marriage ring all the time after get married?
By vivianchen
@vivianchen (2646)
China
January 26, 2010 2:34am CST
I just got married, i love to have my ring around my finger, that reminds me the love between me and my husband.
But i also realize there are many people around me who does not wear their marriage ring who is married.
I don't get it. Do you have ring with you all the time after get married?
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11 responses
@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
27 Jan 10
I always wear my ring. I also wear my engagement ring as well. The wedding ring goes on first then the engagement ring goes on top of it. Most people I know wear both rings. I only take my rings off when I take a shower because I am afraid they will fall down the drain.
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
Well, that's my first time to know that the wedding ring and engagement ring can put in the same finger.Thanks for reading and responding my disucssions!
@randylovesdar (4932)
• United States
29 Jan 10
Your welcome. I love both of my rings and always wear them. My husband picked out both rings and did a great job of picking them out.
@cherrysuisui (73)
• China
26 Jan 10
Hi, Vivian.
I am so glad that you have a happy marriage. I don't get married, only having a boyfriend. However, I think I will do that what you are doing now.
The ring is the symbol of marriage. I must love my hunsband that I can marry him.
So if I get married, I will have my ring around my finger all the time. That't the witness of our love and my marriage.
Those people who don't wear rings after getting married, may think that's convenient to them in their private time. Or you can say they want to prove they still have glamour after marriage. Do you think so?
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@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
26 Jan 10
I agree with you on this point of view as to why its important to wear the ring and of what essence it sustains towards that individual you have married of course. Ring in itself is given by someone who mainly attached with you after marriage. This is the main source of which a married ones can be recognized as well as seen in the crowd of so. This is the gift of love that some one gives to some one as a token of his ,her love.
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
28 Jan 10
Hi Cherrysuisui,
I agree with you, and i like the feeling too! Thanks for reading and responding my discussions!
@youless (112497)
• Guangzhou, China
27 Jan 10
I have to say that I seldom wear my wedding ring because I am not a person who like wearing jewelry. I don't think it is something wrong even if I am married but I don't wear the wedding ring. It is just a personal habit.
I love China
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
I can understand that.Thanks for reading and responding my disucssions!
@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
27 Jan 10
I never take my ring off. Lol. I had to send it away to get repolished a few months ago, and I seriously felt like I was naked. Wearing it all the time allows me to keep track of it too. I take it off when I am cooking something I have to put my hands in or if I am afraid of hurting it when like gathering wood but that is about it. My husband doesn't wear his ring all the time. When he was working he was unable to wear his ring, because his work didn't allow him to. Now he is at home with our daughter so he doesn't wear it around the house. I do need to get it resized for him because it is a little lose. When we go out he wheres it. I think it is all about people's preferences.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
I agree with you. Thanks for reading and responding my disucssions!
@Lochrin (74)
• Australia
26 Jan 10
Married 15 years.
I wear mine almost all the time, thoough my ring finger does form a mild callous under the ring over a few days, so leaving it off for a few hours helps that.
I don't go out, nor spend any great length of time, without wearing it.
@StevenSun (2)
• China
27 Jan 10
Congratulations!
I've never worn anything around my fingers since I dislike to put on anything on them. To be honest, I still have no ring though I was married many years ago. From my point of view, wearing a marriage ring is a western habit. Maybe it's more and more popular in China now.
Anyway, if you like, you can wear. If you dislike, you don't need to wear. No ring doesn't mean you are single.
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
That's true too,but still, i like having a ring after married.Thanks for reading and responding my disucssions!
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
26 Jan 10
I only wear my ring when I'm goin out to the clubs or out with friends etc...Otherwise I dont wear them...My husband use to wear his every day but he doesnt wear it at all anymore...I dont wear my rings (or any jewelry other than my amethyst necklace) on a daily basis because it just gets in the way of my daily activities. I'd much rather NOT wear my rings every day over wearing them and losing one down the drain or soemthing ya know...
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
I understand that! You are a good person. Thanks for reading and responding my disucssions!
@joyadalia (1408)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
Not all the time. I take if off when I get home and wear it when I am going out.
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
hello vivianchen!
congrats! and i am happy to hear that you are happy being married .
on my part, yeah i am always wearing my wedding ring since the day i wear it! i don't remember any incidence that i take it off...i wear it 24/7! haha
but my husband, he sometimes take it off when he's playing basketball.
i just love wearing my wedding ring to tell the world that i am already married & im proud of it!
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
I have the same feelings!Thanks for reading and responding my disucssions!
@alfroi635 (297)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
Rings are just symbols. It is really not necessary to wear that everytime. Other religion do not require any wedding ring when they get married. the most important of marriage is love and faithfulness. Not the symbols that you can see on people's finger.
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
That's true too. But still having a aymbols is better than don't have.Thanks for reading and responding my disucssions!