did your close friend hurted you any time??
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
India
January 26, 2010 2:26pm CST
dose any one from your close friend have hurted you any time and what have he or she have done with you what was happened ??? why did you got hurt discuss your feelings???
4 responses
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
I have been hurt by a friend when I was in college. I felt I have been used. Because I have money back then, a friend who was younger than mine used me for her expense. I was hurt, gladly I wake up from being used and move on. Me and her haven't talked since then, but she is still leaving me message on my social sites like facebook and friendster. I am already fed up so non of the message received a response. I hope she changed already, and she don't used her new friends for her expense.
@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
15 Sep 10
really people make use of us and go away and never ask abot us they just know how to use other peoples they dont have heart and any feelings !!! i really dont like this type of peoples!!!!
@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
27 Jan 10
Hi grecy..i think we have the same experience of being used by a friend. couple years ago i had a so called best friend. at the first time she really nice and we become a good friend, always together in sad or happy moment. but then i realized that she took advantage of me. its all because of money. now i never meet her anymore, i don't need a friend like her either.i prefer being alone than have a friend like her.
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
26 Jan 10
Well yeah, I think all friendships go through that. But the worse that I had would be with my high school friends. There were 4 of them, and they just started acting weird. They were backstabbing me and basically being plastic. I don't know why. My whole school year was really a bum because of that. But we did end up getting along again, but it wasn't like before that I would still hang out with them.
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@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
12 Feb 11
sure keep moving forward in life dont get dipressed it hurts a lot but still we have to forget this type of past and try to be happy we will find more friends in our life better then them!
@animegirl334 (3263)
• United States
15 Sep 10
When I was accepted to a college and my best friend was not, she was not very supportive. She kept saying I would not have fun in college and that I would do bad in my classes because it's too hard for me. I know she was upset so I dismissed her comments. Soon after, we have forgotten the matter. I think that there would always be conflict even among the best of friends but it doesn't have to break a friendship.
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@amar_sandy1987 (1876)
• India
12 Feb 11
breaking a relation is not happened with you passed to this type of situation so you did not got the experiance ask those people who are hurted they will tell you how it feels!
@joniencabo (34)
• Philippines
14 Feb 11
that happened to me during college. some of my college friends. our group was really close since we were freshmen. but on our third year in college i got into the student body. i was kind of busy but also i gained a lot of other friends. but they just don't get that 3 of them started to ignore me and then i heard that they were talking behind my back and spreading rumors. good thing 2 of them stayed with me through that rough time. i don't know if they were just jealous that i was broadening my social group or what but they really hurt me.
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