Material girls
By seaman22
@seaman22 (16)
Serbia And Montenegro
January 26, 2010 5:10pm CST
Ok here is the question...
Yes,there is love around us when we are young..and there is love when we become more mature when we already accept our partner...But why girls most of the times these days look in to material things..like how much do you have..what kind of car do you drive...what kind of brand do you wear...I mean...At the end they end up with an ugly,fat guy who drives BMW...What's the point there...I mean are they planning to get married to that guy or what?..Never mind he is ugly but hey..he can provide them a good future right!?...There are so many nice guys around but they don't have girlfriends just because those girl don't seems to see the future with them...This will always be the mistery to me...
13 responses
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
Women have always been sophisticated that normal men just find it hard to be with them. Then if men tries to avoid them, they have no idea what they've done that repelled the boys. They demand so much and vociferate in the slightest discomfort. They have powerful trust issues with their man instead of understanding and love. Any man who avoids women cannot be called gey anymore because its just so obvious that some women are just too much to be with and neither would the girl like to stay with a cold man. Other may say that girls who go for the rich and wealthy guys have it wrong. But I think the poor guys just love so since now they have no dullard girls to be with as their taken away by the rich heroes.
@RobtheRock (2433)
• United States
27 Jan 10
While it is sad that females are so materialistic. It is also sad that we choose people by looks. It's sad that people choose to get mates who are materialistic, enjoy the fruits of their mate's labor while cheating on them. It's also sad that people go for looks. A girl gets a handsome guy and the handsome guy cheats on the girl. We should try to find a boy or girl friend who is compatible, who shares the same interests so that boredom doesn't kick in and cheating occurs. Find compatibilty first, then deal with the materialism, looks, and age.
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
hello seaman,
We can't blame those material girls.
Anyway,does pretty look can give them food to eat,and all the material things they need?
That is why they are called "material girls"...they don't care whatever looks the guy they are marrying to,as long as the pocket and bank account is handsome.
Ok...not every girls are material girls.
But,that's reality...still,some women are looking for true love,only that,it's hard to find someone who's willing to sacrifice and suffer in the name of love.
Have a good day always
@MrKennedy (1978)
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27 Jan 10
It's human nature to want to be with somebody who will provide for you and give you things you may not be able to acquire yourself. It sucks because so many nice guys will be pushed aside simply because they lack the finance or don't have one of the best jobs in the world, but not all women are merely interested in material goods. I find that the ones who are, are more likely to get their hearts broke or even go behind their partner's back because they only love their partner for their cash, and not for their personality or looks.
@quickstar (268)
• India
27 Jan 10
you are right .thanx for starting such a realistic discussion.....
i hate this nature of girls,these type of girls are just gold digger, no feelings, no love,and worst part they feel as if they are more mature and practical......
@abhiabhiabhiabhi (531)
• India
27 Jan 10
unfortunately thats what modern girls and women are.....they dont go for goodness or love but they go for the money..they think about their future and what advantaged]s they will get from that person.love itself has become materialistic for girlsand women like this..
so thwy end up marrying fat guys or guys much older that their age only because they ill get to enjoy the full advantage of the money.they dont love these guys,but yes there are exceptions also
@daliaj (5674)
• India
27 Jan 10
I have a friend who married an ugly looking guy only because he is very rich. People believe that money can bring happiness and make their life secure and wonderful. I married a guy only because I found that he loves me a lot and he will take care of me all throughout my life. I didn't look at the financial part of him much. This is how world works now. This has been happening for a long time, but now it is more visible.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
27 Jan 10
this material girls exist my life.i often see this thing happen around me.i think that everygirl has her opinion about life.so what she select is different.maybe it seems sad for them.good material can give them happyness.but i know it is not happyness.because they should sacrifice their youngth to change what they want.i dont have right to criticize this material girls.i hope that everygirl should find their happyness through their effort and find what they want.i think that it is very important for everygirl and live depending on myself and make life better.
@MimiRemo (418)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
There's a lot of these girls nowadays. At first glance, you wonder what a fabulous life they have, but when you see them with the bad-looking and ill-mannered husband or boyfriend, you figure it out and think they're actually pathetic character-wise. I must admit that women want things from time to time, but personally, I only ask for what my man can provide for me. If he can't, that's fine because I know that he can take care of me and give me a happy and contented life without the fancy cars and ridiculously expensive brands.
@obe212003 (2299)
• Philippines
27 Jan 10
well, probably they are thinking way ahead of their future... i mean basically they do have some needs to have this and that for the simple reason of being envied or just simply having satisfaction of getting things per se. i had this one girlfriend who definitely falls into that category, she was really into having a rich guy as she thinks it is the only way to make her very happy, providing her with all the things she would want and at the same time be the envy of many and friends would easily be around her... her dream did materialize, married a rich old man and had almost of the things that she has dreamt of, but unfortunately, she ended up being beaten almost all the time at will of her hubby. i admire her for her firm stance of having what she wants in life, but i pity her for not seeing the real essence of happiness in life other than material things..
@enieweiz (97)
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27 Jan 10
girls today are practical.when we talk about a serious relationship then we better think of our future. it's a sad reality we have to face. and there are a lot of girls out there who are "social climbers." it's a difficult world for everyone. it's just that maybe girls sometimes think too much of themselves than others.