Being Alone, A Choice or Destiny?

mdehonor.. being alone is not a destiny.. cause God has prepared someone to be your partner in your lifetime.. maybe it's just that you haven't met the right person for you yet... just wait for him.. maybe it's time for you to stop looking for love but and let love find you.. in that way.. you won't be hurt that much.. because if you keep on finding love you will just find the wrong one.. and you also have your friends who will always be there for you if mr. right guy has not yet come into your life.. so you are not alone at all.. like me.. I am single but I'm not feeling alone since I have my friends, family and GOD beside me.. they are the one who are making me happy..

no dear...for me its a choice...maybe you just don't realize it now.you said, you still believe in love, no matter how many times yo got hurt.you did'nt hate men tho you just hurt by them.dear, Sometimes the pain that we have in our heart, fear us to be w/ someone again.best thing that you can do is pray..ask God to open your heart and take all the pain. so you can love freely...

hi mdehonor. You must be really bored all alone. being alone is a choice but maybe its not yet the right time, You just have to wait for God's perfect time, be patience for it is virtue. God created us with partner, God will send you yours... maybe your other half still looking for you, maybe from another country. You'll meet each other in God's perfect time.Good luck and God bless.

Hi, sister. I think we have the same common thing. But i disagree with u, if u consider "the condition of no boyfriend beside u, which means that u are a single or not in a relationship" as lonely condition. For me "alone" is the condition, when there is only u in this world, nobody else. But look around u, i'm sure that u have family, friends. We can be happy even if we don't have any boyfriend. And I'm sure that your true love is in somewhere, just wait for the right moment for u both to get together. That is what I believe. Sometimes, i think like u too. Im the only child in my family, and i dont have close relation with my parents. I only have few friends. I got stress when the way my thinking is like u. So i decide to enjoy my life, meet many friends, anywhere, include in internet, doing something that i like, and make all that negative thoughts about loneliness away from my head. Don't worry sister, sooner or later, you will find him, you will find someone that love you with all his heart. And being alone is not destiny, its a choice. I think everything happen with us in this world is our choice. And if u want to get a good thing for ur life, just pursuit it, if u just stay at home, all by your self, well, u'll only got loneliness, but if you enjoy ur life, hanging out with ur friends, spending time together with your family, that will be joyful. Life is only once, so enjoy it ;)

then try not to wait for it, maybe someday it will come knock on ur door. just do things and enjoy them. you're alone because you dont have a love partner, but hey youre not really alone. you still have them right? your family. :)

God has some one hand picked for you. God don't intend for anyone to be by themselves. Just have patience and you will so blessed with someone that you never thought possible.

Being alone it`s not a destiny . It`s your choice. I have a theory . As mush you will suffer that much you will be happy with your partner when you will have met him/her . I really belive in that . I even have an explanation : If you will be hurt , and you will suffer, you will learn some things from that past relationship. So, even if you`ll be hurt in a lot of relationships, you`ll have a lot of experience, and when you`ll find the best guy for you, you`ll know a lot of things, from the past relationships, and you `ll know how to make it happy, how to make a good relationship to work out . People are different, and one guy it`s different from another, but it will help you, because some parts of his behaviour are the same . Don`t be desapointed ! You will be happy , even if it`s hard to belive that after so many relationships that failed .

Well, it sounded like you don't like being alone, so i tell you it's not your destiny. You have inside you the longing. You can do something about that. Go out and meet friends, meet friends' friends and go broaden your network. Maybe you have wasted your time telling yourself that it's okay to be alone, or saying, I'm alone so let it be. If you don't allow yourself to mingle with others and accept that that could be your destiny, then you'll be alone foever but if you fight with yourself, tell yourself that you will find somebody to spend your forever with, then you'll find one. It's not about destiny, my dear, it's about you.

Hi mdehonor..i believe that GOD create us for being a couples. If you're still alone now, maybe its not the time for you to meet your soulmate. I'm sure you're gonna find someone special in the right time and the right place soon. it takes some effort, and i hope you don't give up. He will come to you in a beautiful way :) just be happy!

hi mdehonor...i think being alone can either be a choice, a destiny or combination of both. it is a choice if you really want to be all by yourself and you have no interest in mingling with other people. It becomes a destiny if you have tried everything yet all your efforts are still fruitless. it then becomes a combination of both when you made a choice to love and be with someone yet destiny finds its own way to break you apart. No matter what happens, just remember that God always has plans for everyone and He alone knows what's the best for us.