how do you treat your ex?

Me and my ex are working on the same department together with his present wife so the situation is quite complicated.We have a not so good separation but all of it was in the past already, I have moved on already and married a wonderful man. To avoid complicating the situation and in the request of my husband, I just ignore my ex whenever we meet along the hallway. I think it will also make his wife uncomfortable if she see me talking to his husband. So I pretend they do not exist. I have no feelings anymore to him even if we see eye to eye. I only have memories of him. As they say, I remember the boy but I don't remember the feelings anymore.

I haven't had "a lot" of relationships but I always choose to don't treat my ex-s after we break up, sometimes I have tried to be friends with them but it hasn't work out well, to much jealousy gets involved, and then everything gets messed up.

I can only tell you how I would have been if I had an ex.bf. I mostly don't prefer to keep in touch. If the person is nice and we had a friendly break up, I would prefer to keep contact, but make sure that it will never cross the boundaries. I meant that I may talk to him over phone once in a while, but I don't go for dinner with him discarding my husband. After all, I won't keep contacts with them if I feel that it irriates my husband.

I have several ex`s . With some i`m bestfriend , i didn`t talked with a girl , since that day, and with all others we just remained friends. But, when we met, sure that we feel something and we try not to show to many love to our actual partner . Is a good thing to have as much experience as you can and always remain friends . It will help you a lot in your life. I know that what i said it will make mad a lot of people , but that`s my opinion . But, we must make it carefull, we shouldn`t have so many relationships to became ... you know.

they are my FRIENDS, and i missed them from time-to-time. they are also a GOOD FRIEND to me.

the most appreciating part about ex's is that they know you too well and that they have been a part of your life no matter what. When i got married, i have always been a friend to any of my ex's and always there if need be, but the feelings have just leveled up to a stage of just being mutual 'friends', no more and no less.

I have 2 ex-husbands and if I saw either one today I would say hi. but no I have no feelings for either one of them. The one to much bad history with and the marriage is over. and the other one I had feelings for years, but since our divorce they started going away. we thought we would get back to together for a while but the more we were a part I started thinking about how much I am not in love with him anymore. I am friends with both my ex's and that's all we got for relationship wise. I don't hate them and they don't hate me. We just have a understanding they we were not meant to be together.

hi rosey19. i don't have an ex but if ever i will have one, i would like to be friends with him still. Even though the relationship did not work out,i am pretty sure that you also had your memorable moments with him and that he has once become a part of your life. Just forget about the what happened in the past.=)