Is the feeling really gone?

Hi there! I am not really good at goodbye's, I say its the hardest part in a relationship. You have to anticipate that in every relationship that you are into, you never know what lies ahead, so you must be prepared always. The love would still be there, and each day that passes would make you long for more of the person you had. But eventually time heals all wound, you will bump into somebody that will fill up those empty spaces within your heart. That's the start of a new relationship. With regards to the possibility of an old love being awaken from a long time, well thats for you to decide. Because on my watch, I don't buy that. Have a good day!

This is my story, i was with a girl for almost a year. We had are ups and downs but stayed strong. Well i was holding strong my ex was growing weary of the fighting and sadness. We broke up after some time apart which heart a lot. I hadnt seen her for a whole summer telk school started. After seeing her i felt as if i had fallen in love agian. She felt the same way but was with another man. I thought after all that time apart i would never love her agian. But feelings that were deep deep down came out and are love started again. So yes love can be brought up of felt again.

When i have split up with a partner then it is usually for a good reason.In the past there was someone who treated me like a punch bag as well as talked to me like a bit of dirt.Another ex was a person who cheated on me and was caught with one of my friends cheating on me.The ex husband was just totally different when we got married as then was when he showed his true colours.I would never have any feels of love again for the exs as i would think back to why we split up.

I think it takes time to heal that up.. MIne is just brand new and I"m willing to go through the process of healing.. we"re friends with my ex but it so hurting hearing him he loves someone else..

When breakups happened, it only means that there is no resolution to the problem at hand and left with an option to make a choice of falling out of love, which one must do to move on and go ahead with one's life. One has to admit though the possibility of rekindling the feeling for each other whenever chances of seeing each other again, but i think when that happens, there is likely a more mature level of engagement as there was time to realize mistakes or guilt.

To fall out of love is a choice that we have to make when there is uncertainty, doubt, confusion and hatred. When it happens, the possibility of falling again the second time around gives you another chance to reconcile and patch things up and to reconsider commitment in a more mature and secured level.