What do u think about secret? Keep it or share it?

i disagree with you for this case.. some secrets can be shared as you say it relieves from pain while other things like love that will become problem if known to parents must not be told to everyone.. so secrets are better if they keep within themselves..

I think i totally different from me. I think every one has secret in their life and they have their rights to keep it in secret. if you want to share it how can you say it's a secret. I respect others secret and wish people also protect my secrets. I never to spread friends secrets, even sometimes they do tell me voulunateerily. sometimes i feel people have pressure so they want to talk with you, they also want to exchange each others secrets. I know the rule but i don't want to be involved inside.

It's a secret, so why share it? I am of the opinion too that if it is a real secret, then keep it that way. When it is shared or broadcasted, then it is no longer a secret. There are things that you need to keep to yourself. You don't owe the world an explanation to everything that you do. They don't own us, this is our life and we are entitled to our own privacy. There should always be a limit as to what you share to others.

Hello Luvlymee! I too don't like people who has a secret, and if he/she don't say it to me. Especially if my girlfriend is saving a secret and don't tell me it. But how about friends? I don't tell a friend secret to other friend, i safe it on my mind. I too like if people say a truth, if it is a very bad thing. The most that I appreciate in my life is true!

Sometime we have to keep a secret in life. I believe that it a kind privacy in your personal life tha is why it called secret. It maybe bad or good but the point is it is something that you don't like to share to anybody but to your self.

hi luvlymee! well, secrets are secrets and should not be shared. from the word itself, when it is entrusted to you in confidence, you don't share it. but there are people who do, and they are called gossips. if it is not about your, you are not part of the problem or the solution it is best that you stay away. secrets are meant to be kept and hidden. take care! :D

It depends upon what the your definition of secret is. I think everybody has their personal pace. And it depends on person with whom they want to share it. And thing which is not shared with everyone is secret for others. There is one liner about secret which I like a lot. "There are two types of secrets, one not good enough to keep secret and others too good to keep them as secret." :)

I think it's something quiet normal. Everyone has a bubble which is like a line you draw and things are only for you. There are secrets only I know and nobody else knows like parent nor best friend or boyfriend. It's not only something that is necessarily bad..it could be a life experience or a memory in the past too. Wether to keep the secret or not can be decided easily. If the secret can affect someone later on, then it's better to tell it off now rather than later and make a shock out of it. If it's a type of secret that is still important to you but won'T make a difference to other'S people's life, then it's not necessary to tell it.

A secret is supposed to be kept as a secret. I don't mind telling about the secret of my friend to a third person in some case if my friend and third person are no way connected and the revealing of secret won't have an impact on the life of my friend. I will never reveal any secret if it spoils or ruins the life of the person who shared the secret to me.

Hi luvlymee26,Welcome to mylot!I dont think that people had secret are peaceful in their mind..Any way,if it is secret ,then keep it to your self.For me,it is better to tell the truth,to have peace in your heart.Have a nice day!

Secrets can contain private information and being told a secret means that the person telling you trusts in you... and if you yourself have a secret, then it would be your choice to choose who to tell it to. A secret is, basically, something you don't want others to know, so you keep it a secret from them. There is secrecy in the world because everyone wants their own private part in life aside from their own thoughts.

Secret should keep secret. Otherwise it's not secrete. Sometime we secrete a topic or things from people as we don't trust them or we afraid them.

People keep secrets because not all stories about them must be revealed to everyone around them. Even best friends keep secrets from one another. There are many reasons. Me, for instance, I keep some secrets from my best friend because I don't like to burden her with things that I know I must solve on my own or that I know could stress her out. There are secrets about me that she doesn't need to know for one reason that she doesn't have anything to do about it. Something like that. Why? Don't you have any secrets that you keep for your own?