Will you be upset if your husband/wife lost their marriage ring?
By vivianchen
@vivianchen (2646)
China
January 28, 2010 3:26am CST
My husband lost our marriage week last week, i was very upset, because he is so careless for the love evident that we have. And i don't want to wear this marriage ring any more because i don't want to be the only one wearing ring in front to people. 
6 responses
@silverglint (2000)
• Philippines
29 Jan 10
I think the thing that would upset me would be the fact that we spent money for the ring and we will have to spend again to get him a new one. But other than that, I don't think it would be a big deal. How he took care of the ring does not necessarily reflect how much he values our relationship or how much he loves me. It is only a symbolism of our marriage and just because the symbol has gone missing then the thing it symbolizes is affected. Maybe you can have another one made for him or better yet, get a new set of rings to replace the old ones.
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
Yes, buying a new one is for sure, but he can't be lost the old one when the old one is not that old yet. Just 1 month.
@larish (2234)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
My husband almost lost his after four months we got married. When he told me, I was surprise and a little upset for a 2 seconds but It doesn't bother me at all. After all I am secure of his love. I told him that we have to save for its replacement. He was very sincere in apologizing. But the following day, he found it lying in the bathroom. I was glad that I didn't freak out at first otherwise it will be our first big fight as a married couple. lol
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
Dear Larish,
That's very nice! Thanks for reading and responding my discussions.
@GreenMoo (11833)
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29 Jan 10
I would be upset if it were lost, because to lose it implies that he took it off and didn´t take care of it. However, it´s only a piece of metal at the end of the day and just a symbolic thing. We all lose things occasionally and I´m sure he didn´t do so deliberately. I would continue to wear my own if I were in your situation, and replace his in due course. It doesn´t have any bearing on how much your husband cares for you, I´m sure.
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
28 Jan 10
I will be upset if my husband will lost our marriage ring. But i will continue to wear our marriage ring. As i will love him.
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@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
That's good to know.He is a lucky man. Thanks for reading and responding my discussions.
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
28 Jan 10
If ever i was married and had the same situation as yours, of course i'd be angry.lol. It's a proof of your special bond and one must take care of it. However, if he has a valid reason on why he lost it, then it would be understandable. Maybe you could go out with your husband and have him buy a new pair.=)
@vivianchen (2646)
• China
29 Jan 10
Buying a new one sounds good. But those rings are in front of people, we put on each other's finger, there are bless from the people.
