How to maintian love over a long distance?
@captainjulier (12)
China
January 28, 2010 7:41am CST
I met my girl friend in the last year of colledge. I love her very much and I want to spend my whole life with her. But after graduation, we worked in different cities and could not see each other often. She is a seller now and she is not satisfied with her job. Sometimes she is depressed and complains about her job. I am totally out of the way of consoling people. So I do not know how to make her feel better. At last, she is unhappy and thinks I don't care about her feelings and don't want to speak to me. I am worrid and upset. What should I do?
7 responses
@unstopabble (452)
• Philippines
25 Apr 10
well if you really love her. you should do all ways to be with her. you can leave your job and be with her. if you cant to that immediately.well you have to do ways to show that you love her. sending letter everyday. calling her every hour to check her.and visit her once in a while.
@freymind (1351)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
it could be that you don't console her that much... just tell her that you are there for her... instead of lingering on the topic why not reminisce on the beautiful things and happy thoughts regarding your relationship..
I'm a girl and I went abroad for a few months... It hurts so much that I gave up and went home to him... But before that we make sure that we do not lose our communication with each other.
We text, call, chat, use webcam, talk about everything specially the happy things we did together... We talk about work but ends up talking sweet to each other after releasing all the tension and stress we have at work...
Just also console her with her problems, inform her you miss he and you love her, listen to her and tell her that you understand. Then tell her to relax and think about the memories you did before she left.
One incident at a time... Laugh about it... Don't stay on the same topic for so long... You have to be spontaneous with what you say...
Love... Love... Love... :)
@nothing2009 (22)
• China
28 Jan 10
Love is based on trust.Meanwhile communication is of great important.So just maintain contact with your gf,and let her know how much you love her and care about her.Don't be upset,for your gf is waiting for u!
@forsko (38)
• China
29 Jan 10
Well,my bf is studying in UK no,and we are in different country,Everyday i can see him is by the web.Everyday i can hear his voice is by the phone call.I think the first thing you'd better to do is send the confidence to yoout girlfriend.And let she konw how much you love her.
Good luck to you
@lexx87 (1707)
• Mexico
28 Jan 10
Means she doesnt love you ?? Someone taught me one word " prevails" love prevails for everything. Just try to talk with her and tell her u really need and love her and u need find the way to help her , but just u need tell her you really need her and love her, dont be upset too coz people do many crazy things when is upset.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
28 Jan 10
Well this is so sad but it won't be easy why not either she or you moved in and stay together , so that both of you can look after each other .
