i'm in love with a women what do i do ?
By rakesh162
@rakesh162 (131)
India
10 responses
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
15 Nov 06
if she's okay dating you, then what's the prob? with that, she seems not to mind the age gap, what's worrying you?
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
15 Nov 06
ok, so she's upfront about wanting to have nothing but FUN with you. then do, and don't take her seriously. you're young and have so much to look forward to in life. go, enjoy and discover what the world offers you.
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@rakesh162 (131)
• India
15 Nov 06
the society & my parents & since she's already a divorcee and her designation is bigger than mine & i'm just the first level in the company . i've told her that i love her but she says its not goin tohappen - i donna y !
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@jamie11982 (1658)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Ok the first question is are you 2 dating? If not then how come. I'm 24 and my husband will be 39 on the first of the month. I feel that age dose not matter. If you think about decades ago mother's and father's used to set up the marrage and or relationships when the females where 13 and the men where of any age. So tell the woman how you feel. I know its a little hard but become her friend first and if you already are then it should be a little easier for you to let her know what you are thinking and how you feel about her. Send her flowers and ask her out on a date. Whats the worst that could happen she tell you no. You are already with out her but at least she knows how you feel. As long as you are still friends she's still in your life. I hope that this helps. GOOD LUCK
@rakesh162 (131)
• India
15 Nov 06
hey thanx so much - but we go out , and she is a divorcee
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@jamie11982 (1658)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Then take the shot and ask her to marry you. see what she says.
@rakesh162 (131)
• India
15 Nov 06
hhmmm - i donna , what do u think a women wants in 30s ?
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@tallslimguy100 (265)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Dude, what's all this love crap?! You're only 23! Have some fun with her and think back on it fondly when your 30. It's just one woman, there's lots of them out there. Enjoy your youth...forget about LOVE, just have fun. Later...
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@rakesh162 (131)
• India
15 Nov 06
i guess u may be rite - i guess thats what she wants as well.because when i talk about all this love she's on a back foot !
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@gknott (936)
• United States
15 Nov 06
I think sometimes it matter, it depends on your upbringing and the other people in your life, because they influence you in the long run. I don't 7 years is to far apart, I just think I hear uncertainity in your words, so I would say that you are not ready for a relationship with an older woman unless you both have no expectations. I married a man 16 years younger than me and we have 2 boys. He left 3 years ago now for another older woman, but younger than me and now they are split up. I think when you enter a relationship you have to find out each others expectations and work from there. There is a lot of things to consider in any relationship
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@rakesh162 (131)
• India
15 Nov 06
hhhmmmmm ! i'm confused - but i donna wats her expectations at that age ?
