Does the MISTRESS have the right to ask the WIFE for settlement?

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I have been separated for over 4 years now ... my husband and i parted ways and he does initiate to leave the house in favor of another girl ... until now i have kept this info that i was able to meet and greet that first lady ... and there relationship didn't lasts long because the father of that lady found that that her daughter is having a relationship with a married man ... after that i just leave him with the things that he has been doing ... not even thinking of running after him of support since our child died when 5 mos inside my womb because of a heart failure ... after that there were ladies that came and go ... until july of 2009, i have seen him again with another lady ... in the church, in the streets and in the mall ... several instance did it happen that we almost see each other face to face ... but not yet time ... until december 5, 2009 ... two times that day that i really came across to both of them ... first at around 3 pm wherein i am the only one that came across with both of them in the street ... and the second time later in the evening same day ... that time is already with a friend and my mother ... he seems to be un easy ... he seems to be guilty came to a point and he walks fast and living the girl behind ... i just look and done nothing ... just looking with their reactions ... days after that ... i heard news about her being pregnant ... but i am a person that doesn't believe if i can't really see it myself ... until it came to point that in my facebook account ... somebody added me ... january 28, 2010 ... and then send me a personal message at that same day ... but i did read it all today, january 29, 2010 ... and unexpectedly and surprisingly, she was as well online and she really talked to me ... asking me to be friends with her ... so, i did ask her why you want to be friends with the wife of the person who you are living in right now? until our talk came to this topic ... she the mistress asking me the wife to have a settlement over in the barangay ... so with this i really wandered and shocked why in her position as a mistress would ask me as the wife, when in fact i didn't do anything to bother their relationship? Is she in the right position to ask me to have a settlement? Please have your views and thoughts to enlighten me on what i really should do ... P.S. -- I have copied and paste and printed our talk ... can this be considered as a heavy evidence that i can use in the future for some legal actions?