Has a woman/man ever left you heartbroken?

hi healthbeauty! 1 month and 3 weeks has passed since my ex and i broke up. it left me a broken heart indeed but we were able to talk things out. at first it was really hard to accept things especially when you know you weren't ready for such thing to happen. but now we are good friends. i don't think i must tell myself to stop communicating with my ex since there has been no third party happening between us. well i don't call it a third party but there was this girl who seemed be very aggressive and all but to my comfort i found out that with my ex's part, there was no third party at all. it did hurt a lot too but now i am hoping for a reconciliation thing to happen. it scares me most of the time and i always tell myself to stop expecting and hang on to the friendship that we are trying to build up between the two of us. hoping for the best for the both of us and happiness as well. take care!

im a male.i have a really wonderful relationship with my gf. we know each other since we are in college. We are so in love even im willing to meet her family and we become more serious about marriage. After finishing college she successfully meet a good job with an established oil and gas company. Since then, everything has changed. I never ask about her job matters neither disturbing her working time.And we rarely met because i want her to be really into his career.And then come a major blow when she decide that we should be parted away. Why? The reason she gave me is really simple yet it hurting me so much. She doesnt believe taht i can take care of her because im still unemployed. The thing is i just started my own business and of course there are problem here and there.Finally, our 4 years relationship are wasted away and i become like a 'zombie' for weeks! And up till now im still having a 'phobia' about having a serious relationship...Now im having a good life.Business is good and im having more time with my beloved family and friend. But deep inside im still hoping that someday fate will be good for me to meet a true love of my life....

I don't know if this one is counted. I have been hurt by a man but he doesn't know. I just keep my feelings inside me. He is never my friend, I only have a crush on him that developed into a serious feelings that I cared a lot about him and he doesn't know I existed. I be friended every friends he have except him. He had hurted me by knowing he got married. I totally forget the feelings today.

Yes, just recently last week. the pain is still so fresh like its so suffocating through and through. Its feels everything you"ve ever worked with is all worthless. Like I"m worthless and completely stupid letting myself be hurt like this.. I hate feeling like this but I can't help it.

Yes.... It really hurts. But same to you I don't care about him anymore. Time will come that someone will broke his heart too.

absolutely, it hurts. though we sometimes say we do not care anymore or we're okay, but we can not deny the fact we're hurting and the pain still exist. it wont be gone so easily.

Time will mend a broken heart. I think everybody has their heart broken during live, but time is a great healer.

The last part is . Sometimes, in life, we tend to love people whom don't love us at all.. or perhaps the love has faded or some sort. That's the spirit, to move on and with time, the feelings will be replaced with a determined spirit to move on. All the best to your future yeah.

that's true! you need to recover! you should forget! when i've been on that situation, i easily think of everything that will keep me busy. like doing a lot of work and something jut to forget that feeling. well, we'll just wait for our time to be loved :)

it happened to me twice and honestly, the pain was unbearable... it was a turning point in my life that changed my whole perspective of being involved with someone... but the best part is that i came out of those relationships as a far better person, and yes, in the long run, i realized that its their loss, not mine...