FML: Totally Hating My Life!

Hate is such a strong word. However, at your age, your hormones are acting up and you probably can't control your feelings. You say "How dos add I know your age?" Your post tells a lot about you. You are very lucky to have found my lot. With so much energy, you can earn a few dollars posting. Are you tired of being miserable? or Are you enjoying wallowing in your own self-pity? If you are tired of your miserable existence why not resolve to change things? Since this is your life, only you can change things. Why not resolve getting rid of one hate at a time. You can start by not having any friends. I would love to be your internet friend. Like you I have a lot of time and love talking on the pc. You order to get friends you have to be a friend. If interested in having someone help you work on your hate list, respond to this message either on pm or through this thread. Talk you you later I hope. teamrose

Well, you can always talk to me about it if you need to do so. I know how you feel, life has an odd way of completely ruining your entire well being. Just remember that it is only temporary, and once you have your freedom, life is what you make it. If you still hate it then, well, that's your own fault. I figured that part out last week =) Cheer up, it's not the end of the world.

Hi Hanan I am afraid that is life and it will not change Instead of looking at what you hate, think how lucky you are in other ways I am a Person who up to 5 years ago has had to fight from the age of 5 to survive and get over a lot of Hurdles and I mean bad Hurdles I will not go into them here but you are lucky that you only have those Hurdles to overcome There are a lot of People that have to deal with major things in their Lifes like I have I know I sound a bit Harsh and I really do not mean to but the only way to get on in Life is to fight, and to never give up So start thinking of the fortunes in your Life instead of what you hate I hope you will be able to manage that

You have some real issues my friend. Maybe it's time to change your attitude. When you wake up in the morning you have a new day before you. You can fill it with hate or you can fill it with love. You may even hate my comments. Your choice!

It makes sense. you make sense. I think I hate all those things too as much as you do, but the things is, I've come to accept life as it is. Nothing's perfect, but there are also good things to look forward to. I can't provide solutions for all my problems but some of them are fixable, and the others can just be ignored.

Ah yes, Fly the coupe syndrome. Everyone your age feels the need to be on their own. What to do? What to do? Let's think together. Your needs depend upon you however they also depend on people all around you. Hate in any form can be felt by everyone around you. If you were to give happy, unconditional love to everyone in your world, they will feel that and want to return it to you. If you want things to change, give unconditional love. All employers like neat, kind, smart,dependable, hard working people.If you apply at enough jobs, someone will hire such a person. It's all about the numbers. Let's change. See your life as it should be.Ignore the adversity that might come to get there. Can't you see???? You are already there. I believe in you!!

Hi Hanan, I can understand your situation, your helplessness, hating many things and frustration. You are 18, Legally you might be adult. Do you think your parents will do something bad for you? They will not. Actually they may be trying to do good for you. Better don't argue with your dad now. If you really identified something new as a faith, don't jump to it very fast, but understand the pros & cons and the proof and basics of both them if you think it is a serious matter for you. I am a Man, I used to tell my parents when I go somewhere. You don't have to hide much from your parents. Hiding a lot of things means there is a big gap between the relation with parents. If the parents are good for you they will not object you for doing anything good or going for anything good. Friendly open talks with all of your family members together will solve a lot of problems. Modern world do not recognize girls than a beauty, show off and sexy material much, However your parents might be thinking of protecting you. That probably make your mind feeling so. So cool down, and think positively about what your parents are saying to you. And learn about the both religions if you seriously want to follow a religion. Simply feeling hate towards everything will not help. Think positively and deal rightly and for sure when you grow more you will attain more experience and you will get more freedom. Have a nice time ahead! Peace.

Hi Hanan. I'm sorry you are having such a tough time right now. You have to remember that you are strong. The only one that can change anything is you. There are sometimes things that we must deal with for a while for the greater whole of our lives but that doesn't mean that it is unchangeable. There will come a time when it will be your choice as to what paths you follow. Nothing is ever perfect but it does get better.

You know, I think I usually preach when I respond to your discussions, today is going to be far different. You seem to be going through a very rough time, much is wrong, and you seem to keep asking what is wrong and how can I fix it? If it pleases you, I would suggest instead that today you ask what is right. What is right about your life? What makes that right? What would be ideal? What is missing that if it was in place would make your life ideal? What will it take to get that in place? It may be a difficult exercise, but it is more then well worth the effort and deep though pertaining to it.

i dont know why you find many reasons to hate your life.it seems complain too much.i agree that our life would not easy do what we want.but it is normal phenomenon that we often meet in our life during the process of growing up.so we should have bravy to face it and do our best to overcome this.how did you see the rainbow without any raining and wind in our life?so you should start your new life and believe yourself to face life.i believe that you would find the happy life at last.

you missed something to put here: I LOVE TO HATE now add it to your list to be completed. God gave you things to hate about since you really love it to hate things. LMAO It just shows that God had blessed you. If you really hate to hate then why did you put this discussion up? Me myself got out of college but I did have the two kilos of silver when I missed a kilo of gold.