rejected

Now, what is this? Do you know how many people get rejected each and every day? I know it hurts. Been there, done that. But PLEASE believe me when i tell you, you will get over this. And you will find someone. Every pot gets his lid, no matter what. I know you feel sad, and i really feel for you. If i could take this sadness away, i would, but unfortunately this is one of those stages in life you have to go threw on your own. The only thing i can do for you, is give advice and try to make you feel better.

If she didn't realize how special and wonderful you are then she is the one who really lost out! You will in time find that maybe you learned something valuable from this relationship that will help you in your next one! Relationships take work and both people have to try and sadly it wasn't the right time for that relationship to work with her. Don't be so hard on yourself, very few people get to be beautiful on the outside and that doesn't last forever. It's what inside that matters most and your heart is so loving I am sure you will find someone that will love you as deeply as you do her. I am sorry you are going thru such a tough time! But remember to take it one day at a time and think about what is special and wonderful about you. Maybe decide on a new hobby or sport that you can focus your mind and energy on and give your heart some time to heal! Take care, my friend!

I've had that happen to me. It was about eleven years ago that it happened to me. I had been with the guy for over a year when he just decided to call and tell me the day before his mother's wedding and inform me that he didn't want me there. It hurt me so bad. I didn't think that I would ever be able to get over it, but with time and patience I was able to get over it and I was lucky enough to meet the man that is now my husband and we've now been together for eight years. I don't think that I could possibly be happier.

There is someone out there for everyone. You may feel like you have nothing to offer and you are not very good looking but there is someone somewhere out there that will think you are wonderful and good looking. Love is never easy for anyone to find, no matter how good looking and successful you are. It's most likely too soon to say this but you will move on and find someone who appreciates you. I was left by my fiance a few years ago and felt like my world was going to end. It didn't. Life went on and eventually the pain faded away and I met someone new.

If you don't love yourself, nobody will love you. You have been with yourself for so long and yet you don't love yourself. How can you expect someone who has been with you a short time to fall in love with you? Don't expect other people to give you happiness. Find your own happiness and give people happiness instead of waiting for someone to give you happiness.

First and foremost you shouldnt down yourself. That's not going to help your self esteem any.When it comes to beauty you have to define your own beauty and not allow yourself to get caught up in the standardized meaning of societies interpretation of what it is. You are very beautiful by the way my sister. I too have felt unattractive, unwanted, that not one wanted me because I didnt fit the mold of being hyper masculine and everything that it entails. Yet I've learn how to deal with it and create my own rules. But I digress. i too was rejected by someone I was in a relationship with because he wasnt as ready as he thought and I was left with questions that til this day have gone unanswered. It took me a while to get over him but I knew eventually I was going to have to pick myself up and move on and you my friend will have to do the same thing. I know you love her and I know how love can take you to a place where youve never envisoned yourself being but its time to live. You dont have to do it today, you move at a pace thats comfortable however dont let life pass you by because reality she's not coming back nor is she thinking about you. If you dont get homegirl out of your system the next persons going to be paying for the mistakes of the previous relationship and the last thing we want to do is contribute to the vicious cycle of breaking hearts and turning people bitter and burned by love. So take this time and work on you, the most important relationship. Ask yourself those tough question that are inevitable. Trust and believe me when I say I am with you on everything you said but I couldnt allow this thing called heartbreak control and keep me down. Its too much energy invested in something only you feel while the other party is doing more than fine. Of course someone loves you, youre surrounded by it everyday. You maynot have a lover but you definitely have love and use those people that do love every inch of you to get though this. Remember Love never gives up on us.

I wonder if there is a person in life who has never faced rejections. :) That doesn't mean you are any less dear to others. We've had Salman Khan rejected by Sangita Bijlani, who incidentally was older than him! Then even Aishwarya Rai! Even Deepika Padukone has faced the brunt! So all such things are just part and parcel of life. I have faced that situation twice in life. :) Dont worry, you will get over it soon enough. It is just as bad as chicken guniya body aches. :) Takes about 6 months to a couple of years to stop feeling those pains. :) One way to look at it is, may be something better is in store for me. Believe me, there is always something better in store for us. :)