When you saw a familiar person, do you smile at him???
@cecillecarmela (3818)
Philippines
January 30, 2010 3:58am CST
..or do you wait for him to smile at you first?? or do you even initiate a conversation with him =p
personally, i find smiling at a familiar person awkward.. =) hahah.. but i've tried it once but she just shrugged her head off probably thinking i'm an insane hahaha.. since then i've never smiled at familiar faces.. i'll wait for him to smile first before i smile back..
how about you? =)
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@mlno054321 (212)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
no i don't even do a smile whether the person i saw is knew, im just walking in front of them if our way is in the same direction because i don't like to smile . im doing some kind of smile on people, i do laugh if there is something laughing words
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@kameragurl (7)
• United States
30 Jan 10
I'm a smiley type person. I smile at people I haven't seen in a long time; male or female. It's the thing to do unless the person waling in the opposite direction was and still is a jerk.
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@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Interesting discussion. No I stare at him/her instead with big eyes. Haha Kidding I don't know I usually smile at first but if the person doesn't smile or acknowledge back then I stare at him. No joke I do that. This occurred to me so many times now. haha
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Haha really?? you stare at him? you just gave me a good idea haha thanks ;D
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@grifter666 (5)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
HAHA! that's cool, they'll never look at you again! haha, just kiddin
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@tuyakiki (3016)
• India
30 Jan 10
Yes,I do smile at the person.But,it certainly depends on that person or the situation. If I know the person in a positive way,then I surely smile at him or just say "HI". But otherwise,I prefer not.But before smiling,I always make sure,whether I know him or I see somebody who is very similar to somebody I know.
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@iharidh (308)
• Indonesia
30 Jan 10
What do you mean by familiar faces in the first place? If you mean by that someone I know well, I absolutely greet him/her, not just smile with him/her. But if the person doesn't seem so close (in relationship), that's a different matter. I have encountered that several times. At the first, I try to ignore someone even if the face is quite familiar, but I don't remember him/her. The fact is, if we find him/her familiar, so that person is probably our relation. I found this when I have been encountered for several times. Maybe you feel shy for smiling for someone that don't remember you. But I found out that I feel even more ashamed if she/he smiled and then he said "don't you remember me? how mean.."
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
I very much agree with you on that!!! It's a more shame when you don't remember the person, rather than when you first remember the person :)) thanks for that iharidh take care and God bless ;D
@sissybug1 (50)
• United States
30 Jan 10
I smile first at a familiar face that I see in public. It doesn't matter to me whether or not that respond in kind. No one else knows whether we know each other or not. As far as starting a conversation is concerned I usually wait for another person to actually start one. I'm not that great of a conversationalist so I prefer to respond rather than to initiate. But I do find that a nice, friendly smile is encouragement enough to start something between me and another person.
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
i agree sissybug ;D a smile can even start a conversation.. take care and God bless you.. ;D
@yukti_kamra (5)
• India
30 Jan 10
yup i agree to you. today is a world of attitude.
i do keep noticing the familiar people but never call them first.
if they give me a smile then i would meet them gladly if not then i let them go as if i never noticed them.
i really don't care.
as ours near ones always continue the relation.
if others do forget then we loose nothing.
yes if i see some of my near one then i can't stop myself and just go and call them.
not caring about whether they remember me or not. by the way it never happens.
people do remember me.
it depends from person to person.
what do you say?
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Yes it really depends on the kind of familiar person we see.. if that's a former enemy i don't think i'll smile back at him haha.. kidding.. anyway take care yukti and thanks for the response ;D
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
I never smile with anyone not unless I will see a friend or that is part of my job. At the office of course I need to smile to everyone so that they will find me approachable, and even in some gatherings. But when I am walking in the street, I don't smile. I do my own thing, I do not look at others people unless I find them cute, I like the dress, and they look interesting, but I don't smile at them. I am not that snobbish, But I hate to be rejected, it ruin my day. Maybe I am just being negative. hahahahahaha.
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
I hate to be rejected too that's why I also don't smile at people even the familiar faces i can't remember.. :( hahaha..
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@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
30 Jan 10
well, where i am at now (texas, sigh) the people here walk around with their heads up in the air untill they want something from you. then it's the bull southern hospitality thing they pull. i wonder who in sam houston told these folks they were anything close to the bomb. lol...with their country backwoods behinds. where i am from, people mind their business. so it's nothing to me to come here and keep to myself. i don't smile in the streets at all. it may give someone the impression that i am nice, and i don't want to give that impression here. so, no i won't smile at someone i know. in fact, i try not to KNOW that many people at all here. i mostly want people here to leave me alone. most of the people that i see on the street in texas i can't stand anyway.
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Why do you want people to just leave you alone?? don't you have a friend there? i think it's nice to smile at people.. except if they think you're getting insane.. ;)
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@katykicker (231)
•
30 Jan 10
If I see someone and I am not sure if I know them then usually I would just ask them.
If I saw someone that I was definitely sure I knew or they were just an acquaintance or something then I would just smile and say hello and see what they did back.
I always smile at people first as smiling is infectious.
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Wow.. that's great.. ;) you must be a very friendly person.. take care and happy good vibes ;D
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@rajiv2rajiv (42)
• India
30 Jan 10
Well f I see any family person, I am the first to smile..!
Its so nice to see someone close!
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
How about familiar acquaintances? :)
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@drakesuyat (1063)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
i used to work on sales so whenever i see familiar faces, i dont just stare and smile at him/her but initiate a communication and do the familiar asking like "you look familiar, have we met?" if proven right, then it will for sure start a long conversation but if not, it will end up with a good friendship.
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Wow...... I salute you for having that kind of confidence ;D
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@emediloy (701)
• Indonesia
30 Jan 10
for me, it depend on the person. i mean, if i have take a conversation with him/her at least one time, i would smile at first. but if i only know him/her let say at a glance and never talk to him/her, i would wait him/her smile at me first hehe..
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Hahaha thanks emediloy :) take care and God bless you.. ;)
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Hahaha really?? I wish I also have a smiling face so that it won't take too much effort on my part hahaha
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@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
31 Jan 10
when i see a person i know or knew, sometimes i will say hello. the problem that irritates me is when i'm ignored when i see a person i know or knew. i don't say hello all the time because i'm thinking why can't they say hello to me. i don't smile at them.
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
I also have this fear of rejection so I don't smile first. thanks anyway and God bless you clocks ;D
@viryabo (69)
•
31 Jan 10
Actually, i believe one must make a habit of smiling to people, whether they respond or not.
Its really a great feeling if you try this. And good for your facial muscles too.
As for smiling at a familiar face, i just smile lightly and move on. If he/she recognises me, of course they will smile back and then i'll be bold enough to tell them "you look so familiar. My name is ......
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Thanks viryabo.. :) i'll try to heed that advice hehe thanks again and God bless you
@alfroi635 (297)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
When I saw a familiar person, I always look him/ her in the eye and try to smile at him but if he / she will not react on that, I will turn my face away from him and walk away from that person.
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@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
OMG! I am oh so guilty with this question. When I commute, I usually meet familiar faces, especially my high school schoolmates. And I hate it. I oftentimes pretend that I haven't seen them. I wish I were invisible. I just don't want to see them. They seem to be plastic. I hate plastic people.
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@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
Well same here. I also didn't like my high school that's why on occasions that I see my high school schoolmates just like you I pretend that I haven't seen them haha. I guess it depends on the kind of familiar person. If I feel that I like the person and he/she likes me too, I'll give a smile.. but if it's just for formality's sake, I'd rather pretend I haven't seen them.
@gambamarcela (1011)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
are we thar rude?haha..Most of time, I am mistaken to be a snob.
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@jain_ashish (91)
• India
31 Jan 10
smiling is good,,. but it may get embarrassing if the other person does not smile back.... so what i try to do is... establish an eye contact first... for just couple of seconds.... and if i feel the person recognises me, then i smile at him/her . or maybe have a word or two....
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Like you I also wait for other's prompts before I smile at him. Thanks for responding friend and God bless :D
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Yes, I smile or nod at him/her whenever I get to see him on elsewhere. Well, it's up to him if he smile back or not. Anyway, a smile is so easy to do and it's free for everybody...LOL! Kidding aside, I think we must to do, you might never know it might be a start of new friendship. Just be careful, though, because there are other persons who might take advantage of your smile.
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
I love what you said that "other people might take advantage on your smile" hahaha.. =) thanks for the advice junrapmian take care and God bless ;D