what is the perfect present to your partner at his birth day?

hmmm i agree with you, my boy gave me aquarium two years ago but i asked him to buy me that, hehhe.. for me as present things that he can use, meaning useful for him, thats what am thinking every time i want to give him something. cooking his favorite dish also is cute and sweet.. or send him special delivery of flowers or chocolates or a snail mail, something that can show your effort as in A for effort...

It really depends on what's your partner's interests are. One thing for certain, its value will never depend on its price tag. A bottle of herbal medicine for a pervading migraine worked wonders for me.