Are you short temper?..............................
By syedayub
@syedayub (252)
India
January 30, 2010 7:15am CST
hello,
Well, I want to know that are you short temper? but guys i am very short tempered person, If i see something going against me or against the law, get short tempered, and the persons those who are responsible, tried so many times to control my temper, but i failed, don't know how to control my temperment. Guys how do you control your temperment or anger when you get it, due to this my thing under my control is know beyond my control, please suggest me regarding this.
10 responses
@Sophie2010 (144)
• China
31 Jan 10
I think I am patient and not short tempered before but I turn to get angry easily now.It is a bad thing for me.And I know I should control my temperment and I try to do it now. When I feel to get angry,sometimes I leave and go out or tell myself to keep silent and I would calm dnow later.
@personaave (598)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
I used to be short-tempered, and I guess I still am but I try to be really patient, and really understanding. I have read a note that says "You have to be patient with other people's short-comings because they have to be patient with yours". True enough. I have to be extra patient and understanding especially in my line of work. I am an online language teacher and I handle kids' classes. Most of them are really naughty and stubborn at times. One may say that it's hard to discipline them, but I have learned to be patient with them because I know that I was way much naughtier than anyone of them when I was their age.
@syedayub (252)
• India
31 Jan 10
Well, being a online language teacher, and handle kids is really very tauf job, need to be patient, some of the students are really naughty and stubborn, handling them is a very big task, patience is the only critria. dear friend your response is really, which teaches me, how to be patient, as i am a stundent your, thanks for responding to this topic, bye have a nice day.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
30 Jan 10
Temper is a bad thing and unfortunately, mine can flare up under a second. I really have a very short fuse and it takes the smallest thing to light that fuse. One thing i taught myself, whenever i loose my temper, i look for a secluded private place and rant and rave there untill it is almost under control, then i make for home as quick as possible. I know i will really hurt someone in that stage, so i try my utmost best to stay out of trouble. Hope that will help you as well.
@syedayub (252)
• India
31 Jan 10
you are right, When we lose our temper, it is better to move from that place, and go to some secluded private place as you said, is a good thing from hurting someone in that stage, your suggestion is really helpful to me, will try this, when i lose my temper.
@mlno054321 (212)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
yes im a short temper person but as of now im trying to control my emotion so my temper will become long and also to prevent disputes in my family. so you better be cool not to temper.
@syedayub (252)
• India
31 Jan 10
yes, you are doing the right thing, your controling emotions, to come across your temper become long, which my prevent disputes in the family and friends. definately frined will try to control my emotions, to make my temper long, thanks for your valuable suggestion. bye, happy mylotting.
@laura_lmaxi (678)
• United States
31 Jan 10
Oh I have the worst temper in the world, most of the time when people see me, they think that because I am a female and I am small they think that I am the kind of person that never gets mad, oh boy they are so wrong, I have days, especially when I am getting close to my period that I am mad with the humanity, and of course, if I see something that I don't like, I am going to be very vocal about it
@benny128 (3615)
•
30 Jan 10
I used to be really bad when I was driving and being cut up on the road etc etc
but to be honest I don't worry about it now, the way I do it is if someone is being silly in front of me while I am driving I just count to ten and just give myself that little bit of breathing time.
Though I must admit I am very long tempered takes a lot to wind me up but when I snap boy I snap big time lol,
@syedayub (252)
• India
30 Jan 10
hello benny, i think while we must be careful, because being care while driving means leaving some more years, and you said you count 1 to 10 numbers to control your temperment, thanks for suggesting this, i to try this to control my temperment, and definetly give a feed to you.
@vinslounge (1295)
• India
30 Jan 10
I am not short tempered but at times I get angry and irritated. A simple example is mylot. Some times I post more than 30 articles and in turn i see my earnings get increased by 53 cents for which I will be getting irritated to a greatest extent since i feel that i need not put in much efforts. Once i ended up making 9.97 at that month end and my earnings got carry forwarded and I was irritated to a very great extent ecause of that although its a no fault of mine. I need not mention these now but still I do and I dont know for what i am posting here. But still. Have a nice day in mylot and happy earnings all. Cheers:-)
@ghieptc (2522)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
Yes, I am a short temper too at times. There are things that sometimes really annoys me...when I see a mess all over the place, when I talk to someone and simply ignores me or talking to someone and not listening to you. But that can be controlled, I guess so. Sometimes I tend to get impatient but sometimes I take control of it because it doesn't help anyway to resolve such issues.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
30 Jan 10
I have read that those who do not clench their fist survive from the throes of temper. Aside from relaxing the hands they also lower their voice. Its not easy to get angry when speaking in a mild way is their point. But I myself avoid being angry by thinking up of a lullaby and play it in my head so that I'm busy being relaxed rather than gathering anger. I think it would also help to search the internet about other tips.