I will be a mother.

i am married with my wife for 7 years now and she had a lot of miscarriages before wwe hot the jackpot. our son is 4 years old already and his photo appears as my avatar. i am sorry that you feel this way, sounds like you have no plans for baby yet. does the father knows it already? i think you have to talk to your partner so you can ease that burden you have right now. so you have someone to share with all those worries. be happy you havea miracle in you that should make you happy.

hi,kekexinfeng why you feel helpless and have more different feelings? my wife also has been pregnant,my parents and i am looking forward to waiting my baby come to the world.i hope you should be happy for everything. best wishes.

What an exciting news! Congratulations! I know this feeling. I suggest you to consult your friends the experience and buy some books about it. It will be very helpful. Have the nutrition food and do some exercise. Cheer up and it will be good for your baby:) I love China

Life is really something. You got a baby, you got a special gift. Accept it well, it will help you a lot. Relax.. Wish you everything well

Hi kekexinfeng, congratulations on the good news. It's natural to feel uneasy and confused during the first time, but once the bay is born, you and your partner will learn that having a baby makes the bond between partners even stronger. Thank you.

In my opinion, being mother is very amazing. yach... it costs lots money but u'll gain more happiness than what u pay for.

First of all, congratulations! I'm not going to tell you not to be scared. I know how you feel. I'm pregnant with my first also and it is a really scary thing. You want to make sure you're healthy and that the baby will okay healthy also. But, I will say that this is the most amazing experience I've ever had. My husband and I had the 20 week ultrasound last week and we found out we're having a boy. When you first hear that heartbeat or see the baby on the screen and know everything is ok, you'll feel much better and you'll be so happy. All those fears go away and you just want to have your baby and be the best mom you can be. Wondering how you'll manage financially can be scary also. I suggest reading some books about what you'll really need and books about helping find good quality items that won't break your budget. Trust me, I'm learning you don't need a fancy and expensive nursery set. Babies are happy with mismatched sheets and mismatched furniture. The baby just needs you. You'll find a way to make it work. Good luck with everything and keep in touch if you need to talk. Soon, you'll be filled with more love than you can ever imagine for this little person growing inside you.

Congratulations! kekexinfeng. I understand how you are feeling especially since this is your first and I would encourage you to speak to your parents if possible or anyone you feel comfortable talking to. Just catch your breath and take things one step at a time. You may want to start looking for a gynecologist to consult and help you out with your doubts along the way. You may also want to seek out pre-natal class before they become filled up. I would encourage you to start reading up to help you anticipate and understand the road ahead. Don't think too much about the finances except you may want to see how you can budget your expenses and still save money. Just remember if everyone can do and manage it, you can always do it and if not MUCH BETTER! Take care and once again, heartiest congratulations.

It's an essential stage for everyone to be parent.Just enjoy the feeling and prepare to act a new role in you life.

hehe,it's a long time since we send message last time.today,i sign in mylot,found you have been pregnant,best wishes to you!

that is really a happy thing. i think you will be a good mother.