Case of the EX -- Real Reasons?

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Case of the EX -- Real Reasons So you both have broken up. He told you that he wants to be single for now. But you have been together for years. And you just want to know why all of a sudden he wants to break up with you. He says he just wants to focus on his career. He was many ambitions and you were just a distraction to all that. It hurts you to hear this because he is your everything... or at least he was until he crushed your heart into million pieces. Since you already know him that well, you knew that he was not lying when he said he wanted to focus on his career. So a third party is out of the picture for this story. He said he does not want to have any girl friends for the mean time. He said at least for a year or 2. It gave you a bit of hope because you think you can wait for him for a year or 2 because you too had your own aspirations. But being with him was more important. So you have broken up. A year later he tells you he is dating someone new. It hurts you. Even though, you also have been seeing somebody. But that somebody was just to fill the emptiness that you feel for your ex. Knowing this, the past comes back and you have flash backs of the night of your break up. Hearing his voice telling you that he wants to focus on his career. Then you blurted out to yourself saying "but he just wants t focus on his career." "Who is this girl anyway?" Because of this, you thought he was lying about the break up and just didn't want to focus on his career. That maybe he just wanted to meet another girl. Now you ask yourself... "was what he told me the truth? Did he lie to me? So that I won't make a fuss about the break up? And so that I would just accept it?" Now, now, now. You forgot one important detail. He broke up with you. Regardless of what reason. The fact that he broke up with you means that he is not in love with you anymore. That he cannot reciprocate any feelings for you. The career was just the second reason. If he really loves you, he will not let you go. He will appreciate of the thought of you waiting. But he doesn't. And he will never will. That chapter of your life is done. Sometimes because of our emotions we only hear what we want to hear and don't get to absorb what's behind it. When the true reason has always been in front of you the whole time. You've just refused to look at it. This is something that we all should learn. It doesn't matter what the reason is. No matter how big or how small the reason is for you or for your partner.. (on this case, your ex partner) the fact that one of you wants to break up or leave is reason enough for a break up.