Is being single really matters?
By bypbyp
@bypbyp (37)
Philippines
January 31, 2010 8:02am CST
Is being single really matters especially when you are in the marrying age? I believe that it is still in yourself if you want to remain single or being involved in a relationship. If being single makes you happy for that moment, then suit yourself being a single. Then if you are not happy being single, then suit yourself to find someone whom you can share your love at most.
4 responses
@cintoy (1011)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
I will suggest you to be more serious in finding your mates. Being single is very fun, free and exciting. but girls are girls. it is impossible for you to not get married for the rest of your life, rite? so, when you are of marrying age, you better start to find. past the marrying age will make you regret of wasting your time not finding one.
I am a man and i do think that older women (sorry..) are not attractive and from my friends' experience (they are women above 30)... it's not men chasing women anymore... my friends are starting to be very aggressive as they are becoming less favorable by the guy.you absolutely will not get married by knowing a guy in just 1-2 months, rite? there will be a few years to know each other better and after that, you have been ........
so, my opinion for you is that you should enjoy your single now yet you should be considering in finding your mates.
(sorry for sharing this... hope there's no hard feelings)
@bypbyp (37)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
Hey, thanks for the opinions. I respect the way you elaborate your viewpoints as i have believed that is based on your true experience in life. Being at my age right now, i know that some of my friends are already planning to get married. I am in a relationship right now, but i want to enjoy first my singleness before i will settle for a lifetime. It's just that, i am wondering why most of my peer friends especially my best friend are so serious in getting married nowadays though being single is fun and exciting. I think maybe because our age is on the verge of marrying someone already. But i want to get to know better my partner because marriage for me is sacred and must be shared with the one you truly loved and trusted. So while waiting for the right time to settle, learn to enjoy life being single.
@my_name_is_coco (4333)
• Philippines
20 Mar 10
I don't think a person should be pressure to get married.if s/he still enjoy being single even if s/he is the appropriate to marry already,then be single.marriage is a lifetime commitment.it is not something to joke about.when you get married,you have to be really,really,really,300% sure that you want to be married.otherwise,a stressful union is not healthy.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
..hi.. For me, it doesn't matter in any way.. staying single or married is a matter of choice.. you are right.. if somebody wants to stay single and he or she is happy with it, then its fine.. and if he/she wants to get married, then its still her/his choice.. no one is being criticized for being single or married.. it depends upon the person where she or he feels happy and comfortable.. both status have their own advantage and disadvantage.. So its already the person's decision to get married or not..
@etioewe (142)
• Mexico
3 Feb 10
you are right, all you said is the truth becuase some poeple think they are really happy being single, but the besic truth is that deep down they long to be with someone,and probably they are expecting the perfect person, but what i have come to know is that anybody can be that perfect person,all we need to do is just get to know poeple, meet them spend some time with them and we will find out how cool and great we are compactible with these poeple and how loving we will wish they are our partners. it is really true joy too to have a partner no matter the problems in relationship. thanks
