Do you easily fall in love?
By smooch091784
@smooch091784 (973)
Philippines
January 31, 2010 1:54pm CST
I'm too picky when it comes to guys. I have the specific thing that I want or what I'm looking for in a guy. So pretty much I can say that I'm a type of person that don't easily trapped by just a guy.. On the other hand, I'm a jolly and friendly person.. Like, you'd love to hang out around me.. Cause I'm fun! Thing is sometimes, when I met some guys, even they're not my type or anything about that, I ended up liking them. I can't say though that I fall for them though, but I think it won't be that not to happen. I kind of wanted to restrict myself to whom I'm going to like but sometimes I can't help myself disobeying my own rule of that. Have you ever felt this in anyway?
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@online_jon (1476)
• Philippines
31 Jan 10
As i experience love? I can say that I easily fall inlove with someone, especially when the girl is kind and attractive. Even though it is no good to fall inlove very fast? Because you may easily got hurt. But know that I've already found my girlfriend? I've never continue what i'm doing because i know my i already love someone. Advance happy valentines to you!
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@elly1384 (352)
• Bulgaria
31 Jan 10
hello
in fact yes i am often "fall in love" to a guy who is long time around me and the reason is that i like him because i know him yet and i feel reliable and protected with him.But i think that i am not fall in love just i like the men and after time i exchange the "Object"
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@dragon54u (31634)
• United States
1 Feb 10
I haven't seen you around here for awhile! Good to hear from you!
I fell too easily in love when I was young, and always for the wrong guys. My mom and sister had the same problem. There is something wrong inside us that we can't figure out so we've all sworn off men and are done with them.
I would tell myself that I should stick to certain parameters when choosing which men to accept dates from but if a tall guy with dark hair came along that could make me laugh and had an air of danger about him, off I would go!
Woah, thanks for this post! I just had an epiphany. I'll think about more over the next few days and maybe alter my life a bit--or maybe not. I kind of like the freedom of not having to worry about dating and stuff.
@shamsta19 (3224)
• United States
2 Feb 10
Heck no!! I am a very picky and skeptical person. It often takes me twice as long to develop these feelings of love. in fact I have found myself in situations where she was so in love with me and I didn't feel the same at all. I know I can be a lot of fun to hang around and when it comes to the women in my life, I have always treated them well. I think a few of them have mistaken my kindness for fondness when in fact I am just being myself.
I am not a big believer in "love" at first sight. I think we lust at first site. For me it takes a while for me to get to know a person. I like to know as much as I can about anyone I deal with, and especially when dealing in relationships. I think I have a high self esteem and I think I deserve the best life has to offer. If you cannot contribute to our happiness in a relationship, I will not receive you so well. That make sense?
I need to know this person is worthy of my love. Is worthy of my time and effort and is willing to reciprocate my efforts. I just take a little longer to fall for a women, especially nowadays. You should check out my past postings about relationships, might make you laugh. Check out my 50 questions post http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1816976.aspx
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
3 Feb 10
I guess I've been blessed with suitors who happened to be really great guys. Although, there aren't too many actually. I would have to say that I do fall in "crush" easily especially when a guy is attractive and most especially when he happens to have a great personality that goes with the looks.
But when a guy starts to court me, and even if the feeling is mutual, I really try to pay hard-to-get for a long while. It sometimes really helps to know the guy more. See if he is worth the risk.
Feeling wise, I would honestly say that my feelings easily develop for someone. I just have this innate sense of self control. :)
@luvlymee26 (326)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
I can't fall in love easily. Im so picky, just like you. Because i want to find the best guy for me. So i have many criteria for guy to enter my heart. Only person who is qualified can enter my heart. :D Otherwise, when i love someone, my love can be so deep for him. And sometimes, it can kills me, because when i broke up with him, it will be so hard for me to get cured. I can be really hard to open my heart for another guy. I really need lot of time to cure my heart.
@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
1 Feb 10
Not at all. I've had crushes on people, but I always knew the difference. I fell in love with my husband quickly, but there was something different about him (and it only takes one), so I had fallen in love with him in a way I had never loved someone before, and that's how I knew, if that makes any sense.
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
Hi smooch! I could say that I am not the type of person who falls in love easily. I admit that I can easily have a crush on someone but that doesn't mean that I have fallen in love with him already. I am really picky when it comes to choosing the right guy for me. However, I don't really give much importance to the physical aspects. Attitude and personality are much more important.
@siupi25 (4)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 10
I'm very difficult to fall in love. Especially after broken heart, Love for me is thing which important and until now I only fall in love twice. That is seriously fall in love and I love her min after I know the personality that girl. I need almost 1 years to really fall in love with my current girlfriend.
@Pedro_Cephas (5)
• Portugal
1 Feb 10
Maybe not falling in love but probably a little crush or maybe you're a person who likes to really know people and that makes people interesting.
I think everybody is interesting because we are all different of each other.
We all have eperiences that mould our personality and some people even if not looking appealing to us they wake up our curiosity.
Everybody is special and everybody is "likeable". :)