Why do people cheat?

@nykel88 (999)
Philippines
February 1, 2010 9:42am CST
People cheat because 1. they are insecure. 2. they want an easier way out. 3. they are influence by others who cheat. 4. cheat because they are jealous to others. 5. they don't trust their instincts. 6. they need an ego boost.
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14 responses
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
People also cheat because they're not satisfied with what they have. They cheat because they wanted some more. They cheat because they're not happy. They cheat to get something extra. They cheat because they're human and humans have no satisfaction. I hate cheaters but they're everywhere and can't be eliminated. :D
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• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Yes you're right. Nobody is perfect and I think nothing can change that. If only there's a human law that will eliminate or stop cheating then that would be awesome but I doubt there will be one since it's a complete blockage of human free will or freedom.. Life sucks but also fun. :D
@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
So true. Human beings are imperfect thus we sin and the result cheating. lol
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• United States
1 Feb 10
I was in a 4 yr relationship and it ended because he started acting different, not being himself and pulling away. Later I found out he was cheating on me. He didn't have the decency to tell me, I found out from a mutual friend. After 4 years together I thought he would apologize when I confronted him about it, but nope, apparently he was only in it for himself. He turned from someone I was going to marry to someone who was a complete stranger to me. So to your reasons of why people cheat, you forgot to add 7. they care for no one except themselves.
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@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Ouch. 4 years? I agree most cheaters are selfish. They don't care the feelings of others and also doesn't care if they got hurt. I'm sorry to hear that story Annie.
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
1 Feb 10
Some just don't care... or they fall in love with others. Personally i think you should just end the relationship first... i mean whats the point in cheating, when chances are it'll end in the relationship being over. But other then that, your reasons are the main ones. I think insecure people are most likely because they feel vulnerable.
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@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Thank you. Yeah That is why relationships doesn't last that long now a days. Cheating is so rampant you can never know who to trust or can you trust him/her.
• Canada
1 Feb 10
I really don't understand it, because I've never done it. I guess I don't fall into any of those categories you listed. And since I do not do it, I don't have much tolerance for those that do.
@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Wow. Not even in exams? Lol Then congratulations you have less regrets in your life. Cheating is bad but still connected to every person but not all but most. Thanks for your opinion. 66
• United States
1 Feb 10
I was in a relationship for almost 2 years and we ended it because he was cheating. I found out through friends. Cheaters lie and lie to get out of things and want you to believe them and most of the time you do believe your boyfriend or girlfriend that is cheating. You think they are perfect for you because they are telling you something other than friends are. They say they love you and treat you like a princess you are but then they are going out at night with freinds they say but they are going out with some other girl or boy. They cheat because they cant be with just one person and there is something in their mind telling them that. There are a lot of people that cheat in the world and they should be shot or something because some of us innocent people can't take it and don't want that in their lives.
@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
That is so sad. Yeah you get deeper into them then left you because what they thought wouldn't hurt another person. They are just there for the ego boost among friends. Friends really do influences us and is our responsibility to choose what kind of group of friends should we hang out with. Everybody can be a friend but not everyone can be your close/group friends. Thank you for sharing lologirl 66
@natjohn20 (200)
• Philippines
1 Feb 10
For me why people cheat its because of Greed. Through greed people cheat in many ways, because they want to desire something beyond their grasp and capabilities its the only thing they knew how to do whether it is through love, money, exams or etc. people tend to cheat. Also I think its because of the need of ego boost a part of a psychologic need of a man. wahaha what do you think my dear friend nykel?...
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@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
True my friend and I'm sorry for the news. I didn't expect that it would have been that disastrous. Our government cheats for money as well as their sub assets which is the school. They make a lot a money on this. I am sorry Nat but it is not yet the end man. This somewhat part of God's plans. ^^
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
People cheat because they are selfish. They want to make everything favorable for them even up to the extent of cheating so that means they are selfish. Another reason for cheating is lack of fear of God. If only they fear God then they will not cheat because God knows every sin we do. So cheaters are not hidden from God and someday soon they have to give an account to God. But cheater don't mind that so they have no fear, and no reverence to God.
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• Hong Kong
2 Feb 10
may be they are helpless ones that need to be cure and make believe that God is always there but not to judge but to help every one who cheats..
@RachelleNH (1396)
• United States
1 Feb 10
Or they see something they want and know they shouldn't...kind of like rebelling or knowing it's bad for you and that's the thrill? My ex cheated on my and when I confronted him he said it was because he was unhappy when he was with me...that I was no fun anymore. We were together 11 years at that time..and it was my birthday..talk about some gift!
@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
Are you still with him? the years keep coming. Sorry about what happened.
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• United States
2 Feb 10
No way, I divorced him 5 years ago. It's been hard for me to trust since then though-I think every guy is going to be the same. I think what the girl below me said is true: we're always looking for something better...and some people are never happy with what they have.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
2 Feb 10
I think some people do it because of some kind of rush that they feel. It is something that is forbidden. To them, it is exciting. They feel like they need to do something to spice up their life. It is a game for them in some instances. It may start with a one time thing. Then when they get away with something, they feel great and continue to do it.
• Philippines
2 Feb 10
We cannot deny the fact that temptations exist. People who are too weak are easily be tempted causing them to cheat. Well it actually depends on a person if he wants to cheat or not. Some people just cheat because they just want to, or maybe they are not satisfied with what they already have. Or, if they've been hurt and they want to take revenge. There can be a lot of possible reasons why people cheat and those things you have listed might somehow be true.
• India
2 Feb 10
People used to cheat others becoz of their ego and mostly having Jealous on you.
@cloud31 (5809)
2 Feb 10
People cheat because they want it! they simply did not care about others feeling. They cheat when they want something they think its impossible for them to get or win about.We (people) sometimes intend to cheat each other and at the end after we did the harm then regret what we have cheated for,its normal to cheat but i think we do consider the outburst of it..Further to that, be sure not to cheat your ourselves... hahaha.God bless !
• Jamaica
2 Feb 10
i also think people cheat because of greed and to enhance their status.also people cheat to try and to try and sum up things that have occurred to them in the past.people also cheat also cheat because it is a family curse or family tradition.