What do you think of this?

Great Idea Seppy! Wouldn't that be something if he was secretly planning to make the same dinner? This is very exciting and am sure that it will open his eyes to how you feel about him. Hopefully this will allow you both to reconnect. Let us know how it goes.

I think this is a very sweet idea, it sounds like something out of a movie. If you do this he'll see that you love him because you took out the time to prepare something which has a special meaning in your relationship. It is worth a try.

I think it sounds like a sweet idea. I hope that being reminiscent of when you first got together helps the two of you talk and work on the things that are making argue.

I think it is a very nice idea and I am sure that he will really appreciate the effort. It will give you guys a chance to reflect back on when times were better. Plus it is always nice to have time alone with out the kids it always gives you a chance to re-connect on an adult level and to have an adult conversation. However if there are issues that need resolved the talking could get quite serious, and may not be entirely romantic be prepared for that, but I think it is a very nice gesture, and will remind both of you of a time when you were young, carefree, and in love.

I think this is a very sweet idea. I have done a few things recently that my husband and I have done in the past as well. We have been together since I was 14 and he was 17 and that was 10 years ago. So it's always nice to remember things from years ago. Good luck. I hope it works.

I say it's a good idea. But I would say try to put any of the fights away for the night. Just don't discuss it if possible. Talk about the disagreements on the 15th if necessary. Just make it about the romance and the reconnection. Good luck.

I know how you feel with you and your hubby fighting because my husband and I are going through the same thing. I think it is great that you want to cook dinner for your husband and try to rekindle and bring your marriage back on track. I am sure his parents or your parents will allow the boys to stay over night. I wish you the best of luck.

Your meal idea is good, but don't have expectations of how it will go, or you'll be disappointed. I recently have been having trouble in my marriage too. We have been together 9 years, but have been married less than a year. I feared for our marriage and so I went book shopping on-line in desperation, not even really thinking this would help. I found a book called "How one of you can bring the two of you together" it is by Susan Page. The book isn't perfect, and I do disagree with a few things that the author has to say, but I feel like if I wouldn't have gotten the book, my downward spiral would have turned into a divorce. I got it used from amazon so it was less than 10 dollars even with shipping. I had it shipped in two days because I knew I needed it fast, and I am glad I did. I started reading it immediately, it's been about three weeks and I am on the last chapter of the book (I work a lot, like a whole lot) so it took me awhile to get through it. Anyway, it's been about three weeks and he's touching me again (which he wasn't before, at all). He's holding my hand, and he's sharing ideas and information with me. He's asking my opinion. I feel good again about the relationship, and I think he's starting to feel this way too. If you get the book, follow through on the suggestions, they seem to work. Like I said, I like your idea for dinner, you should do it, but don't let anything disappoint you, take it all in stride, even if he doesn't seem to appreciate it (I know this sounds weird). Give him the benefit of the doubt, that what ever it is that he is doing wrong, it's only because he doesn't know HOW to do it right (right now he's stuck in this behavior pattern with you). I wish you all the luck and good will in the world! Take care and have a good valentines!