SOCIAL CLIMBER: Great Pretender and Manipulative!!!

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Have you ever known someone who acts like a socialite and pretends to be rich or wealthy just to get attention and gain friendship? I do. I met her when I was still in College. She is so gorgeous (beautiful face and sexy body). That is a fact. Her beauty is not artificial but she is a fake. We became close friends. It is not because I thought she was rich. I mean I have a lot of friends who are not rich. My bestfriend is not rich. Almost all my friends belong to a well- to- do family but they are not rich or wealthy. They belong to the middle- class and some in the upper middle- class. Though I really have friends who are really rich and wealthy. However, I don't really consider that when I start a friendship with someone. Honestly, right from the start I already knew she was a fake. However, I thought she would evetually admit it as we became closer. I understand why she pretends to be someone she is not. Eventually, she started borrowing money from me without returning it to me. It is okay if she really needs it but most of the time reason she does not have money is because she parties a lot and spend all her money buying branded and flashy clothes. One time I have learned from one of our sisses in the Sorority that they went out and she was the one who paid for their bill. That was the time she borrowed some money from me. She said she is going to return it to me once she withdraws money from her bank account. I also learned from her roommate that the shoes and clothes she sometimes wear are not hers. She would wear her roommates clothes and even accessories without asking permission. How did I know? One time while we were in the cafeteria her roommate approahed us and asked her why she was wearing her roommates blouse. It was an embarassing scenario. It was me who wants to disappear. I don't know why there are people like that. I started staying away from her when she did something really bad to someone else. She was nice to me but real mean to other people. She uses her beauty to gain advantage. I stopped entertaining her friendship after two years. She spread nasty rumors about one of our close friends. It was then I realized that I should not wait for her to do something bad to me before I stay away from her. Sad to say that there were twelve (12) of us in our group and I was the only one who did not believe about that rumor. The other girls in our group believed her and stayed with her. However, I stayed with my friend whom I've known longer than her. My friend who has always been honest to me. In the end they have seen her real color and realized their mistake but it was already too late. My friend whom they have outcasted because of that social climber and great pretender b**** held a long time grudge with the rest of them. It took more than 6 years before she was able to forgive them about what happened. However, I am happy that our group is now complete again without that social climber, great pretender and manipulative b!*(&!!