your boyfriend's ex-girlfriend is adding you up in facebook? Accept or Reject?

This is a good discussion, because this has happened to me before. I only accepted because this is when my bf and I first started dating, and I wanted to keep a close eye and make sure that I wasn't being played in public and everyone else knew about it and not me. Eventually I was able to accept that there was nothing left between them, and we gave each other our passwords to our accounts. Of course I looked at his messages and he looked at mine. Some may say this damages a relationship but I think it helps put your mind at ease when you know that your partner isn't cheating on you with some one online.

If you'd ask me? REJECT. I mean, what for? What's the point? What's her motive?? To be friends?? Uhh I don't think so. She definitely has a DEEPER purpose for adding you. Besides I don't really entertain girlfriends or GIRLS associated with an EX (even though I no longer have an ex boyfriend, haha well.. should I say, people associated with an ex-lover) so just reject.. don't want her to meddle with my personal life too.. haha so much bitterness on my post ;) Anyway this is just an opinion. The decision is always in your hands.

If I'm friends with that person then sure I would add them...if I dont know them though or am NOT friends with them then of course I wouldnt

you could just send a message before accepting.

I think i will reject her. Because, it's weird, if she adds me in facebook and she knows that i'm with her ex boyfriend now. There must be another purpose why she adds me. And i don't think if she really wants to be my friend by adding me on facebook. I'm sure she has an evil plan to ruin my relationship with his ex boyfriend. If she really wants to be my friend, she should say it directly to me in real, not by adding me in facebook.

For me it's on a case to case basis. Some exes make me feel a bit jealous (and insecure lol), so those exes I won't. But if it doesn't make me feel queasy then I'd accept her.