It's my wedding anniversay but only me remembers...

hi, thats the sad part i hear... but my hubby i still remember our wedding anniversary and we do celebrate it even our both extended famillies remember this ocassion even the day we become boyfriend and girlfriend we celebrate it also... maybe you need to talk with you hubby... maybe he is busy in work... there are things like that..

Hi eureka! Heartiest Congratulations to you on your wedding Anniversary, which was on 2nd Feb., I suppose. I could see this discussion of yours today only. I agree with you that it pinches when the other partner forget the date of wedding anniversary. It is the one of the most important days in one's married life and I think most of the couples look forward to celebrate the anniversary. We both (me and my better half) always try to make it a special day and do not forget to wish eather (though we are married for many years, as compared to you). I think you should have a word with him that why your hubby does not consider your wedding anniverysary as an important date. Have a nice day! Deepak

i would so not be happy with my hubby if he thought our wedding anniversary was just another day! shame on him. I would be very unhappy. to me it's a special time in the lives of a couple. and they both should take that day very seriously each and every year

very sad, you have to remind your husband about this big day. i know most women like to celebrate it, as a man i think one should appreciate the marriage relationship everyday. everyday, so, anniversary date is not an important point to me.

Happy Anniversary dear. In my case, she has forgotten entire me, it hurt me, but I am not complaining, as I believe life is so short and so much to do in it. "Live the best and Leave the rest" If he had forgotten it, remind him and tell him to take you out some where for a dinner or movie or for a romantic walk at least as punishment. Once again {H}}{A}{P}{P}{Y} {A}{N}{N}{I}{V}{E}{R}{S}{A}{R}{Y}

Yes, I think we have in common because my husband treat it like an ordinary day in our lives.Maybe I don't understand their point of view.There is a lot of things to say but It's up to him.

well you can let him help remember it. our anniversary day is really a big deal for me and my husband. it's because we're counting the years of our marriage and we will so thankful if we will reach 20 years together. that's already a huge accomplishment for us.

I feel so sorry for you. I'm not yet married, but I have a boyfriend and we always celebrate our anniversary. I would feel bad too if he would forget our anniversary. Maybe you should try to talk to him about it.

you should always tell her when she forgot those days, everyone is not good in memorizing because of works or other business going on, i always forgoten the special day because of so tiring works everyday..

I know what you're going through now, I've felt that feeling six months ago. My husband and I are not used to celebrating anniversaries since the time we get married. I just let it passed. But, 6 months ago was our 25th wedding anniversary! For God's sake! He hasn't remember either. I was expecting that there may be a dinner or something to share with the children, but there was none. I was looking for a hint if there would be surprises at night but there was none until all of us fell asleep. Anyway, what I did the next day was to go to church, thank God for all the blessings and the health that my family is experiencing during the years that were married. It really depends on the person, maybe, my husband is not the romantic kind or maybe, age has taken its toll, he's got memory gap that's why he forgot our anniversary.

Due to unforeseen circumstances and possibly an unidentified illness, some men find it rather difficult to be passionate about these kind of issues. An anniversary sure is one of the biggest days of the year but its some kind of retardation that keeps men from having a heart regarding matters like this. Theres a lot of literature saying that a woman is a bunch of nerves and a man is simply a cold living heart and this is the case with your husband. Really you cannot blame him for what he did since it is his limitation that prevented him to be concerned enough and not that he refuses and doesnt care at all. You can see in other ways that he loves you.

My anniversary came and went this month. My issue is no one in our families remember. I am so proud of my marriage(with it's highs&lows). It bugs me that it is not celebrated more. True, marriage has been around a while, but now a days it seems to have lost its importance. I married young. We are still in love. That is sacred. I feel that day should be posted on the rooftops, or at least given a shoutout? You know 'Happay Anniversary'. from the people who made the day special. Does it matter to you if anyone remembers an important dates in your life?

i think it really depends on the person. because i've went out with several guys in the past.. some of them do not remember or celebrate anniversaries and stuffs but some do. they even know the exact number of weeks we're together!! i think celebrating anniversaries are really important in a relationship whether grand or simple.. the important thing is you remember when and how you started being together.. it's like renewing your vows. Maybe you can open this up with your husband so that he'll know that somehow it has bothered you that he doesnt remember your wedding anniversary. Sometimes, guys can be so clueless! haha He may not intentionally forgotten it and he might make up for it and remember it the next time. ;D

That's really sad to hear. Today is also me and my boyfriend's 8th month together, and he forgot that it's our monthsary! Well my dilemma isn't as much as yours, but I kinda get where you're coming from. Girls I guess are more emotional and prone to take these things more seriously than men. I guess it will also be of help if you talk it over with your husband, I'm sure after he hears your side he'll make up for it and give more attention 'bout matters like this. Good luck!

Oh that's sad, but you should not take it against him, most guys don't remember dates especially anniversaries, the reason for this is unknown. Don't worry, you are not the only person who have experienced that. What's important is that you are together and happy.

shucks! i forgot when mine is... i just treat wedding anniversary like any ordinary days. just like how i treat my own birthday. But it doesn't mean our wedding doesn't mean anything to me anymore.

Hi eureka How could he forgot your wedding day, you've been married for only 3 years.. maybe he'd remember but he is not romantic, sweet or thoughtful? how about your first year wedd anniversary? like you I've been married for three years, but we only spend our first year together. the second, and the third year we're apart. On our first year, the three of us went out for lunch him,me and our son. And he surprised me with a classic silver round solitaire which I didn't really expect, I didn't prepare anything for him, for me greetings will do. On our second and third year, we just exchange greetings. The first year is really memorable. If your hubby is not thoughtful then you must be the one to give effort to every wedding anniversary will come, and maybe in the future he'll realize that he should give an importance to your anniversary day. Good day.

me and my husband had our 5th wedding anniversary last January 22. I don't mind actually if we don't celebrate it (but we did he treated our family a dinner), as long as he remembers and greets me on that day, I'm fine with it.

I think your husband just have a lot of things in his mind. It is indeed an important day for the two of you. If he doesnt remember I dont think he doesnt care at all. He is also not a mind reader so it would be good if you are also going to help him remember it.

Hi friend, it happens in life, take for example I never remember anybody's birthday and anniversary but my wife does. That doesn't mean that I don't care for any body.I feel proud that my wife is so careing about all.But as I said I mostly forget due to my hard work schedule but once remembered I tried my best to make the day memorable for us.