how can women communicate with men?
By ShannStout
@ShannStout (46)
United States
February 2, 2010 1:20pm CST
I know that women clearly don't know how to communicate with men so I want to know what is the correct way. In relationships this seems to be the common problem with fights. Men don't like talking about things and sharing feelings so what do men want? What do they want out of relationships and what do they want from women? Is it that hard to communicate when you feel like you know your partner, and all of a sudden you feel like you don't? What is the problem with women and men communicating with each other?
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@omgxitsxshiloh (42)
• United States
2 Feb 10
men not liking to talk about feelings is a myth. if they truly have feelings, they'll make them known because men don't play those games.
men and women are generally ruled by different aspects of the brain; it's been argued that women are ruled by emotions while men are ruled by logic. granted, this isn't always true and i would definitely take that with a grain of salt because not everyone can be categorized and stereotyped.
what i've found is that mature, adult men don't play games and don't like the emotional head trips that a lot of women like to play. men want you to be upfront and confident and you need to make your needs and wants known and they'll gladly tell you if they're able to satisfy those needs.
the fact is - if you can't talk to your lover, get a new one. it's really that simple. the whole "men are so cold to women" thing is a myth.
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@sk66rc (4250)
• United States
3 Feb 10
I don't have any problem communicating with my girl friend. We've been living together for a while & we talk all the time. There are times that she scares me how much she knows me. Sometimes I think she's little taken back about the things I do because she didn't expect me to. I think it's all about personality. Some people have problem communicating & some don't. Some have problem accepting things the way they are & some don't.