dont, fall in love....it hurts
By danish2407
@danish2407 (168)
India
13 responses
@LadyBoss (253)
• United States
2 Feb 10
I fell in love once and it turned into a horrible disater
But you just have to learn how to let go and move on
there are some possibilites that you will find love again
if someone dosent want to be with you , you cant force them
there are millions of ppl in the world and tons of fish in the sea
@LadyBoss (253)
• United States
2 Feb 10
WEll , i fell in love and It WAS BAD.. i didnt get over him for about 4 years...even though i tried to move on he was always in the back of my mind..and when i dated other guys it always didnt end up working out Because I would compare them to HIM...
But i finally realised letting GO is possible
even if it seems like that You two are ment to be
LOVE ONLY WORKS IF BOTH OF YOU WANT TO BE TOGETHER
its really a waste of time trying to get someone too like you and
want to get back with you
You just need TO GAIN confidence
and you can really get anybody that you want to
you just have to believe in yourself
and let the past go some how some way
You cant force love you have to let it come naturally
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
2 Feb 10
What do you mean people only love for a few days?
It is possible to fall out of love.. and that is maybe what happened with the women you were with. And sometimes its easier to ignore a person you used to date rather then converse and get close to them again.. as it causes only more pain.
@blondeladyinred (106)
• Jordan
2 Feb 10
I do not call it love ,love has to be complete,i mean both should feel the same feelings ,i may call it one sided love,true love is beyond our imaginations ,she wasn't in love with you.
@garfield_lemia (108)
• Philippines
9 Feb 10
If you've been hurt by the person you love.. look at it as a stepping stone to make you more stronger and grow matured in facing what ever love problems that you are going to face in the future..
@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
hi there danish. Heartbreak. It sucks. i think no one is ever completely ready foe that initial raw, debilitating heartache. I thought I was, but that was up until i got my taste of love gone wrong. While this was month ago, and even i laughed when i reminisce about it now, i remember the pain vividly, the crushed feelings, the broken heart. I remember it being paralyzing, painful, and real.
@jedlaranzado (14)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
Well, you have to move on... It is really difficult at first but you will eventually get used to it.. If she ignores you, let it be, she is not happy with you anymore, but that does'nt mean you will go after her. Go for your own happiness, find your place. Always remember that there is a rainbow after a rain.
@rsa101 (38166)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
Oh feeling hurt at times are necessary for us to learn something from that experience. Do not lose hope in learning to love again. Sometimes we need to feel hurt to learn from it and be a better and stronger person that we are. If we won't be feeling hurt we will all become reckless with life. Hurt is a sign that you are human and from that experience you will learn to appreciate what life is all about.
@joygracia (1325)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
yeah.. I'm completely into this right now.. its better if you left somehting for yourself and don't really take relationship that seriously. It will have its toll on you if you make every effort for your relationship and in the end your partner does not really love as what you"Ve felt about him. It wouls be best if you'd first find out if both of you fell the same thing and everything is mutual.. Its painful finding out you are the only one whose serious about everything..
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
Its a normal reaction to say that don't fall in love it hurts after someone we love the most broke our heart but we are blessed because we get the chance to fall in love. If I were you i will take time to heal my broken heart & enjoy myself being single & love my self more because nobody else can do it for me than myself.
@cloud31 (5809)
•
4 Feb 10
Not all love affair having the same end, It depends on how you go for it, try to manage your relationship well if you have chance get into another relationship..She might ignoring you for something, try to think about what have you done makes her ignoring you, and try to talk to her what's the matter of you..
Anyway if you feel alright about it then move on,put on more care to your next relationship it may end up like happy together,hehehe,,Happy Lotting!
@guiltypleasure (59)
• Brazil
3 Feb 10
Love really hurts, so so so much. A few days, actually, an year ago, i fell in love, and it ain't worth, it's really painfull. But people say that is impossible live without love, so... who am i to disagree?
@rubyxia (39)
• China
4 Feb 10
When you love someone,changes are all around.We shall always save a place for ourselvesw,just for ourselves.we are always on a strange road,watching strange scenery,and listening to strange music,then we'll find the hurts that we force ourselves to forget are already gone..
time is the panacea for healing hurts.
