make people understand you easily?

Hi friend, misunderstanding is common whenever there is a communication.If in your case it is a face to face conversation then I think he/she shouldn't have any problem to to understand you properly.Perhaps you are not looking in to his/her eyes.Try speaking while looking directly in to the other persons' eye then there will never be a misunderstanding coz he/she could easily read the truth from your eyes.When ever anybody tries to tell a lie his/her eye can't avoid the tension and hence speaks the truth. In case it is a written then try writing in such a way as if he/she is sitting besides you and you are casually talking to him.In this way the words will come from your heart not from your mind, as you know heart always speaks the truth so there will be no misunderstanding.

no one can understand anyone and even himself it is very hard situation. i think it is because of human nature that he has different response on same situation due to ur relation, ur status or due to ur ego etc. we respond differently on same situation like if we r in anger but we have to overcome r anger if we r in office or outside and if we r fierce in home then we show our feelings because no one can see us at our home............... it is very very complicated so only way to remain happy that we should have many compromises in our life otherwise we cant smile.

I will try once and that is all. If they don't understand me at all, I will just stop and not tell them anything at all I will just no longer explain anything to them.

I have the same problem frequently. I read somewhere that by simply trying not to second guess people - take what they are saying at face value - is a good way to make yourself a better communicator, because you then learn to say what you mean. It is very complicated and unfortunately, I have a very hard time with that because I will take what others say at face value and then I will find out they did in fact have a different motivation. For example, someone will tell me how to handle a problem in such a way that would make the outcome benefit them. That is very hard, because I do not know everything and have learned to ask for help if I am not sure how to go about solving a problem.

This is one of the reasons why I dont really like telling people how I feel because I know that they would not understand. I have tried to talk to people and they listen to me too but I dont think they really understood what I meant. And because of that, I tend to keep things to myself but when the time comes that I really need to say something, I talk and hoping to be understood. But it usually ended up not being understood again..(sigh)