should i go or should i stay?
By diyonzi
@diyonzi (116)
Philippines
February 3, 2010 2:12am CST
my bf is coming home on a vacation this summer and we plan to spend it together. but then something came up and my dad wants the whole family to spend the summer out of the country. im really torn because we dont get to spend much time with my dad.. but i also want to be with my bf. im confused and i really dont what to do.. can anyone share what they think? or what they'd do if they were in my shoes? thanks ;D
3 responses
@shankarbaddi (785)
• India
3 Feb 10
I would like to suggest to be happy in what ever you are, cos now you cannot ignore going for the vacation if you do so you family will not feel nice seeing your behaviour and also it will arouse some kind of doubt in their minds. So what i feel is you go with your family and enjoy at the same time stay in touch with your boy friend via phone. After you return you can plan some day where only you and he will be there and enjoy the whole day this will be in your memories for a long time. I had some time tried this and still til now i remember. Hope so i gave you a valuable suggestion.
@diyonzi (116)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
i thought of that too. if i choose to be with my bf, i'd feel really guilty of not being with my family. but then my bf works abroad too.. and he comes home only once every 5 years that's why we've been staying in touch via phone and the internet. My dad, however comes home every year. So there. Im thinking of splitting my one month vacation in two.. first half with my bf and then the other half with my family.. hope that'll work. ;D
@shankarbaddi (785)
• India
6 Feb 10
Ya that will be a great idea. You can do that. Make all these days your memorable days and preserve them Later when you recall you feel nice. All the best. Hope so i have helped you in taking a decision.
@diyonzi (116)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
thanks for sharing your ideas.. i forgot to mention that my BF works in another country and comes home only once every five years... that's why im having a hard time to decide. I know that I should choose to be with my family.. but if i dont see my bf this summer i would have to wait another 5 years.. and that's just too long for me..
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Hello diyonzi,If i were you I will go with my whole family.There are still another time to be with your BF.Family first before others.Good Luck!
