Are you happy with your sister or your brothe achievements?

Wow congrats. I just notice you have almost 3000 plus post and reply wow. Congrats. How long have you been in mylot? .. Yeah I think its normal. We are born to be competitive. That our natural instinct to survive is to be the best. I'm also happy to be second in everything beside their will be no first if theirs no second right? lols. .. Wow 10 years gap? What happen between that 10 long years? So who is the oldest? You? or your brother?

I see. Sorry to hear that. If they survive then theirs time two happy people in your family. I will sorry to your younger brother. I can relate to him. Right now he has two mother. Your mom and you. lolz. because of 10 years gap is very wide. He has no choice but to treat you like a super big sister. Not like a friend sister..hehehe

yeah, only if they survive, we are one big happy family! hehe but i think if they survive, my youngest brother will not be here...coz my parents don't really like many children coz they think that they can't afford to raise big family... actually having my youngest brother is kinda just an accident...hehe well, don't be sorry for my brother. coz he also receives double motherly love! hehe and i am not that bad sister...we are still friends...and i know that he loves being my brother! hehe coz i give him what he ask as long as i can...

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Wow it nice to have a sister like you. Can you pray also for me to be successful in anyway I do? And also away from hard if possible and keep away from bad friends and find new good friends? Also a healthy business future for me. Thanks if you don't mind.

Thank you to be honest its works. A friend of mine just call me and now we are putting up a business. My online earning is also starting to pick up. I think this year is a good year for me. .. Thanks again.

Yeah me too. Its not fair sometimes that they do it the easy way and we do it the hard way but still we failed. But I think luck is not in our side. I'm happy for them too. But same times somethings I think I deserve more than my sister. But that luck and we have our own luck someday.

Wow it nice to hear that from you. Its hard to find a brother or a cousin like you. I think you are more of a provider in your family. So the more your brother and sister become successful the less you spend financially for them. Am I right?

Hahahaha.. Your right. Your brother achievement is your achievement as well. I wish I have a brother like him..lols. Family have different personality. Some has competitive attitude. Its also good because you give your best all the time to be on top. Same time it develop competitiveness in our attitude. Bad effect is that we sometimes step other just to achieve our goal. Other family help each other. Its also good it develop closeness and bonding with family members. Bad side is that theirs no room for improvement. No competitive mind set.

Yeah you are right. I think what triggers it is more on our competitive side rather than envy feeling. Its our nature to compete and its our nature to be the best in any field. That how we become the most successful animal in the planet. Because we have ambitions.

Wow I'm happy for your sister. top 10 is very good achievements and beautiful too? Can I have her number? Just kidding. A top 10 and beautiful face is a deadly combination..lols. . .. hahaha.. But you don't like her cranky/moody attitude? Why who is older? I think her attitude is result of her achievements. I mean she work hard for it. And she have no time to enjoy herself and all the pressure mounting and stress to maintain or surpass her achievements can really make us cranky and moody..

"Kathy" is my real first name. It's just the way I sign off. When I first joined mylot, I had a hard time trying to come up with a username because most of the ones I could think of were already taken. Since I like Billy Ray Cyrus so much, lol, I thought I would try "cyrus", and bingo,lol I finally thought of one that hadn't been taken and they (the mylot administration) let me use it. As for the jealousy thing, I have an older sister who has had a problem with her weight just about all of her life. She joined Weight Watchers in 1973 and lost quite a bit of weight. While I was proud of her, I couldn't help but feel somewhat jealous at the same time because I needed to lose some weight, myself. I never was as big as she was. However, I did join sometime later and I lost quite a bit myself. I felt better as a result. I hate to say this but she has gained her weight back since. Well, I might as well admit it. I've gained mine back, too. However, I do try to watch what I eat most of the time. I think it's normal to gain weight the older you get. Kathy.

Yeah. I'm an obese type II before so I can relate.lolz. Right now I'm just overweight so its a big achievement in my part. I'm still trying to loss weight but I think this is the lowest weight I can get. .. It a nice name Kathy. Keep your weight down. Right now I have back pain, hearth problem and liver and kidney problem because of food.

who is Kathy? lols. Yeah I know. Its natural I think. I think its not normal if you don't feel jealous or envy. Its only mean one thing. That is you don't have feeling toward your family or friends. ... I always wise it was me. But it also give me strength. Because their achievements only prove one thing. That is attainable.

I'm happy for you too. It nice to have a kin like you. Sometimes what we all have is our brother or sister when their is trouble and when theirs envy then its hard to approach them.