i am single...

Philippines
February 3, 2010 7:04am CST
i am single and valentines day is fast approaching.. more so, it falls on a weekend. i don't want to have another lonely and cold heart's day all over again. but it's not also my fault that i don't hav a partner now, as much as i want to. i want to spend it again with my friends but im afraid they all are going to be busy for me this time
3 responses
@meipan (746)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
you should not to be hurry, but i think you also need to find them... he will not come to you like in fairy tale you believe that you as a princess will come a prince to save you in your loneliness.. when you find him... ask your self for a millionth times if he is the one.. if you can accept him whatever the past he had.. the future he can give you and the way he is now... dont you worry.. you're not the only girl who have no valentine's dat this coming february... just enjoy and do something that you really like...
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
I already am enjoying my time by myself but I just can't help it that I also wanted the real relationship that could last really a lifetime. How do you think I find him meipan? I'm getting a little tired getting into in a relationship then ending in a break-up, then start all over again...
@meipan (746)
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
try to go somewhere where you can relax and think what's the reason why you always end up in a relationship.. is it the mistakes always on the other side or you really have the problems? try to attend some events or seminars or reunions with other friends.. it will help you to meet new peoples... who knows.. someone there to like you..
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
you mean to say, like exposing myself to more people? i don't know but everytime somebody comes near me or a guy shows interest in me, it's like i can't trust them anymore. in the end, i'd only get easily irritated and sometimes i tend to get defensive. One time, i met this really nice guy but he ends up to be married, and then there's this other guy i super like but he doesn't show any interest in me. i feel bad. and lately i hate going out anymore, im beginning to feel this insecurity inside me growing :(
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
If you're single and has no date on Valentine's Day then you can always date yourself like pampering at the spa for a Valentine treat. You're not the only one who's single, other people out there share the same situation like yours.
• Philippines
12 Mar 10
yeah. i realized that already and i'm slowly overcoming it now...
• United States
6 Feb 10
I understand exactly how you feel being that I am newly single myself. Well I was in a relationship for the first time last year and it didnt work out due to his belief of not being capable of committing to another person. In fact he broke up with me two weeks before Chrsitmas. That was fun (sarcastic). Valentines Day for me is like Dooms Day in a way because all of these couples will be extra happy and primed to express and impress one another with love that quite frankly should be shown everday of the year and not just one hallmark card holiday. But believe it or not Im not bitter about it. Yes my freinds too are all in a relationship, all four of them but Im not going to let the day get to me, I will keep busy and make it a Blockbuster night with lots and lots of snacks and maybe go out for a drink later. So This day doesnt have to be dooms day, go out like you usually would and dont psych yourself out by questioning why youre single and blah blah blah. Find enjoyment out of it. This means you get to make your own rules. Dont get me wrong, I dont like being single either but Ive come to realize that I dont want to settle for less either. The right person will come along for you. Dont down yourself, hell make it fun by going out and im sure someone will go out on the town with you. If not, then the next best thing is to put on your armor,walk outside and do something nice for yourself. Hell theres no better Love or Lover than You.
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
Yeah! That's the spirit! Just what i needed! Thanks antronreshaud :) Valentines day, here i come...