I Can't Think Of Anything To Say

Hi Jane, That's also what's happening to since i encountered that glitch here. although i know the reason behind it but i am kinda exhausted..given the fact that we are so busy too in the office. we have lots of things to accomplish...lots of due dates. i know we can make it as a team but i am just so tired. i am not complaining about my work because i love my job my body is complaining. i too never missed a day for my gym. i am losing weight (yes..that's true). i think i need some rest and extra time for sleep to gain my sanity (hehehe) and strength. See...i am still here trying my best to make quality responses and trying to meet my target for the day. Well, it seems like he has an impact in your life. he's making you confused...just be on guard...something can spark out of it especially that you are seemed flattered about him..his words!

hi janey: i think you should go out of the ralationship quick,time goes by,and you will get the trap deeper and deeper,it makes you really painful,and it's difficult to control your feelings.at finally,missing eventually defeated your mind...both of you know you shouldn't be together,because both sides are doing the wrong things to your family.if your husband get to know this,even he forgive you,but the scar still leave in his heart,and will you be able to return to your previous love life?

Hello, Janey. If you've been having a rough time of things, and then somebody comes along who isn't involved and only has good times with you, it's very tempting to reach out to that person for a little relief from the situation you're in. You feel wanted, and it's a great feeling, and perfectly natural. I've been there myself - still am, as a matter of fact. These feelings don't mean that you don't love your husband or that you're going to ride off into the sunset with a handsome internet stranger, but you do need to organise them so you can think through what you want to do about them. I'd suggest not contacting the other person for a couple of days. Can you talk over your problems with your husband? I assume there must be problems, if you're questioning your marriage. If not, do you have a trusted friend you could talk to? Only you can decide what to do, but I think you need help in arriving at that decision.

Reading this reminds me of friends of ours who about six or seven years ago had a nasty separation and divorce. They had a young child and I think it affected him as he is very quiet and shy now. Anyway, it all started when he started communicating with an old ex girlfriend from school through a website that re-unites old school friends here in Australia. He then started going away on "Fishing" weekends, which were actually weekends where they would meet half way between the cities they lived in. This was a four and a half hour drive each way for both of them to meet in the middle! She found out about the affair by stumbling across his emails to her one day and she was not impressed. It all turned very nasty for a year or so until they got their lives back on track. He ended up moving in with the old ex girlfriend and they got married and had more kids and she re-married someone else too. I think they are both happy with their lives now, but whenever we see her, she is still very bitter towards the father of her son! I think you need to be very careful with situations like this as they can lead to places you might not want to go!

i have had many strange emails online in the past but if you feel that it deos not concern you with such email just ignore it and go and have a coffee how can a nameless faceless online person upset you ,i would get on with being online and talking to my freiends and the people that i care about ,so why is that email so strange just ignore that email and get on with your marrige ,there are a lot of strange spammers online i would just blaock that person

Hi Janey I think you should ignore this - it happens at times to all of us and if you really try to take this seriously & solve it there will be more unhappiness - so leave it be- you always think something you dont have may be better - whatever it ( person or thing) maybe. After some time things will b e normal and you will forget all that.

What Holly said! I can't say it any better, so I'm not going to try. Good luck though.

Isn't it a nightmare when that happens! My advice would be try not to worry about it - easier said than done I know... I think it happens to all of us from time to time. Makes you questions if you made the right choices? Makes you wonder if the grass is greener. I've not had it for a while, although the last time was when I dreamt about an ex, and woke up wondering if I had made the right choice. Make a deal with yourself not to get in touch for a few days, and spend that time focsing on the positives you have now. Then you will feel in a better place to be friends if you want, or to leave it if that feels better.

You have lost some interest in your husband. Maybe your husband does not give you the spark from when you were first married. Life is not really complicating but is what you make it to be. You seem to be feeding of of emotions not from whats in your heart.