Your Friend's Religion
By lampar
@lampar (7584)
United States
February 3, 2010 3:45pm CST
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10 responses
@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
hello lampar,
i think a real/true friendship see no boundaries and see no limits. i mean if we are real friends it will not matter to us whether our friend is part of this or that religion. what matters most is that we understand & respect each other. i guess that's what more important.
i have friends from different beliefs or religion and so far it never causes any misunderstanding between us. we share each others beliefs and sometimes even talk about it, sometimes we ends up debating...haha but of course just with the topic & don't really affects the friendship, we are just having some healthy conversation about religion...but we don't really try influencing each other in our belief... and we don't force someone to believe on what we believe...huh!
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
6 Feb 10
For me, religion only play a small part of our friendship, all of my friends know that well, so we seldom have problem on religion disagreement, let alone talk about it most of the time, it is not something we are passionately engage in while hangout together, so far so good for our friendship with no conflict at all.
You are right & correct, let the nature take it course or let God speak to him/her if God want another believer.... or may be a priest or preacher in case God is busy, his miracle way is a lot better than we mortal human way of communication. For me, he/she is my best friend and not some kind of subjects i want to proselytize into my belief system
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
5 Feb 10
You are right, ckyera! Never try to force your religion on friend, it is a NO NO for me too. Talking about it is fine but don't try to convert him/her. I always respect my friend's religion belief even though i am not always agree with its doctrine; but our friendship is more than that disagreement on religion matter, it is just a trivial issue to me.
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@ckyera (17331)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
right my friend, coz if we insists our belief to them , then i guess it can create some issues between friends...all of us have our own belief & we also have our own reasons why believe or have faith on such things, sometimes, we also wanted our friends to be part of the religion we are in coz for us it is the right one, but of course we can't also take a way the fact that our friend also believes that their religion is the right one...huh!
so just share things & then let nature take its course...and again, respect each other...
good day!
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@Galena (9110)
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3 Feb 10
I've had friends of lots of different religions. Christians, Satanists, Atheists. (in fact, one of the Christians was best friends with one of the Satanists), Buddhists. I will admit, I've not really met many Hindus or Muslims. I've worked with one Jew before, but it was only with her as a Christmas temp, so I didn't get to know much about it from her.
my best friend has gradually found herself Pagan, which I think she might not have done without knowing me. she didn't really know where she was going particularly, but ended up on a similar path to mine.
different religions doesn't mean you can't be friends.
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@sirknight (118)
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3 Feb 10
i have a friend that is a muslim but that does not effect the friend ship at all because he know that i am not a muslim and i know a lot about muslims and i believe what i believe and we know what i think about muslims so don t think it is that much of an important topic i believe in christ so that is imortant to me and his religion is his do we can still be good friends despite this and also he was not born into islam so that help me alot
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
15 Feb 10
I don't think a persons religion should have a negative effect. I have friends that worship differently from me. We try and learn from one another. Differences can also bring people together in new ways.
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@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
3 Feb 10
all we need is respect. i have a friend with a different religion and that religion they are not allowed to eat meat of pork and beef. he can only eat meat of chicken and fish but that was not an hindrance. actually he is not just a friend, we are together in a band but we still have good working relationship and we enjoy his friendship for he is really a bubly person. the only problem if the bar or the people we work for will serve pork as our food, he ends up buying sardines or ordering eggs. har har har
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
3 Feb 10
Hi, Pal! talking about food and religion, it is quite a delicate issue, i always careful what to cook for my friends when i had them invited for lunch or dinner especially if he /she is of a different religion belief. Most of the time i know what food is forbidden and what is allowed on my friend religion, so i am careful of cooking those that are alright for him/her to eat , but not those is forbid to eat unless he told me otherwise, no question it is a bit of inconvenient if my friend is of different religion belief system, and not allow to taste certain food. But it is his choice that i will not interfere. What is important is we have fun together and that is what matter most; whether he want to order sardine, pork or beef or even grass for his meal i have no objection and will not stop him from doing so at all. har har ha ha ha...
Thank for sharing your view. Pal!
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@chazzief (237)
• Malaysia
8 Feb 10
Friendship and Religion are two different issues.
I have friends of many religions and we get along very well! Religion is something personal and we cannot choose our friends based on that. I enjoyed the company of people from different religion because even though we are of different religion, we share lots of other things! The most important thing is to have respect. we need to respect each other's religion..that's all..
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
8 Feb 10
That is correct, we should enjoy the company of friends and in everyone different religion belief, but in reality, it doesn't always work that way, few are just too fixated on making others/friend to follow his or her religion belief , it is just not right as far as i'm concerned, i never understand why a few want to mix both together. Sigh!!! ![](/Content/images/emotes/blink.gif)
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@reydabu (5)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
I don't have any problem with different religions. When I was still in school, I have friends from different christian groups but we did not have problems. When I went to work in Saudi Arabia, I have Muslim friends, we did not encounter any problems. I think the main thing that made our friendship worked is, we tried not to discuss religion when we are together, we accepted each other as human beings, who we are and not what we are and we tried to respect each others beliefs.
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@HansonFan (1653)
• United States
7 Feb 10
I have a friend who is a Catholic, a friend who is a Christian, and a friend that is an agnostic. Being an agnostic myself I dont care what they believe in as long as they dont pressure me to go to church with them. Asking is fine, continually asking is not. One asked me to go to a Christmas program with them and I did, I have no problem doing things like that with her. I dont think religion becomes an issue unless you make it one.
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
7 Feb 10
That is correct, never pressure any of your friend to follow your religion belief, it is rude in my personal opinion. I remember i used to know one Jewish friend who refuse to visit and talk to me after i dropped his invitation to visit synagogue with him anymore, then end of our friendship. For me , it just puzzle me why someone will want to mix religion with friendship so fervently and insist a friend to become like him in religion belief, only a dictator will do that to a friend, a true friend will not force anything down your throat including religion belief, only a fake friendship will endure that.... You got a point here..
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
3 Feb 10
Good to hear that , ErickJ. Sometime a good friend will change his view on us when he decided to change religion belief, due to his religion influence on people of different faiths. But for me, it make no different to me what my close friend choose to believe. I am cool on that.
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@teriyaki18 (135)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
i dont think religion influence on how friendship will go. i am the only protestant in my group of friends, they are all catholic...and i also have a couple muslim friends, and we get along pretty well.
i think the keyword here is respect...i respect their religion and beliefs and vice versa. ^^
heck, my husband and i have different religion, too, but we're okay...but my kids are definitely following my religion coz im their mama. ^^
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@lampar (7584)
• United States
7 Feb 10
I agree it shouldn't have any influence on our choice of friend or remain a true friendship. Religion is mainly a personal choice of one relationship with God , it shouldn't play a part in any friendship. As far as i'm concern, whatever my friend's religion belief choice is purely personal and none of my business, i am always glad for my friend so long as he /she find personal peace and happiness with religion of his/her choice, that is most important for me instead of passing judgment on him/her.
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@ShannStout (46)
• United States
4 Feb 10
I just like to respect other peoples beliefs. Everyone is different and so is what they believe. I don't wanna not be friends with someone just because they don't believe what i do. Its just wrong
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