even thoug you are in the relationship..
By sparksssss
@sparksssss (478)
Philippines
February 3, 2010 9:17pm CST
as a bf or gf, husband or wife, are you respecting the privacy of your partner? or is it okay if you open adn read his or her text messages, email, ym, etc??
6 responses
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
I prefer that me and my partner are honest to each other that we have nothing to hide really.. It shouldn't be a big deal if one of us reads personal messages of the other, but then again, a relationship like that is ideal to me, but that is unlikely to happen.. =(
@sparksssss (478)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
they want a privacy.. but still i want to read their emails and celfone. some of my ex's hide thier celfone and one time i saw her inbox his ex's texted her or other guys.
@kquiming (2997)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
that's exactly my point why i want a real honest relationship with my man, because if he's got nothing to hide from me (nothing that i should be mad off i mean), i don't see a reason why he wouldn't trust me with emails and cellphones. my parents have that kind of relationship and they have never cheated with anyone. they've been together for 34 years now. 9 years of dating and 25 of marriage.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
4 Feb 10
I demand to have passwords to all my boyfriends' stuff to make sure they're not cheating on me D:
And also to keep tabs on anyone else they're talking to and... yeah.
Maybe that's just me.
But... yeah ._.
@mylesnarvaez (5451)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
i never had a habit of reading text messages or taking calls in others' mobile phones or opening emails even if i know the passwords... unless they ask me to. i do respect the individual's sense of privacy, even when i am/was in a relationship. mobile phones, emails and other personal gadgets will be a private thing.
even if we are from a large family, and we have a dozen cellphones lying around... nobody will just go and pick up somebody else's phone to read thru the inbox or answer the phone if it's ringing. people will definitely get the owner to answer his/her phone.
unless given with due permission, personal stuff will be deemed private. 
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
4 Feb 10
should be This question of topic can be read by my wife who is always checking emails and sms on my mobile phone ... I often advise her to keep my privacy, but he still did and do it again .. damn!
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
I think I really dont know what top say about this because I had an experience about this and the result of what I did was not very good. Not because my partner got angry with me for opening his email or whatsoever, its just that I found out things that were not very helpful for me and my partner. And in situations like that, he doesn't do anything about it which means he would just tolerate certain communications that I dont want him to have because he doesn't know how to handle those kinds of situation. I think what I did was not right but when I did it last time, it was like an instinct that I should and there it was.
