your friend and your boyfriend... hmmm....
By enieweiz
@enieweiz (97)
February 4, 2010 4:30am CST
i would only want to know what would you feel or do in this kind of situation. actually, i had a boyfriend. had, because we're over. it wasn't really the best kind of break up. the sad part was that a person i consider as a friend (well, we're not the closest thing ever) became his girlfriend. they're going strong now. i know i shouldn't be sad or anything.i guess i'm just bitter about the whole thing. that friend was also once the exgirlfriend of my boyfriend... that was after me of course. my friends tell me i shouldn't worry about it because she takes my trash (hihi) which i never thought of it that way. i guess, i always see that friend and my exboyfriends happier with her than with me... it's painful to watch it like that... what would you do if you're in my situation? what would you feel? i would appreciate every comment!!
4 responses
@qijikibum (54)
• China
4 Feb 10
It's just a matter of time. When you find a much better guy than your ex, it would be easier for you to face him. Right?
@shan0822 (433)
• United States
4 Feb 10
Oh, poor enieweiz, just let you exboyfriend go! It's common when couple broken up, you don't want him more happy with other girl than you. When I found my first boyfriend had a new girl firend I just so upset. But this thought is so unfair to my boyfriend in that time,I just try my best to let it go.
@ljmacca (86)
• Turkey
4 Feb 10
I'm a great believer in that everything happens for a reason. I had a similar experience excpet I was the girl between 2 lads. I would also say it depends on how they got together? was it behind you're back while you were dating or afterwards, if it was behind you're back you're better of...if they cheat once they will likely do it again so you're better off out of it. In my situation I was with a lad and became really good friends with his best mate, over time I realised that we both had feelings for eachother. We build a solid friendship first and when I realised how strongly I felt about his mate I broke up with the lad I was with telling him I couldnt see us going anywhere, I wanted to stay friends so I never cheated on him but waited a couple of months before I asked if I could meet up with him and I actually asked if he would mind me getting with him as I didnt want to ruin their friendship only after speaking to him did i get with the other lad and we've now been together for 8years happily married with kids. I think my ex would still have been hurt and upset i 'chose' his friend at first but now he is also happily married and it definetly worked out for the best.
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
4 Feb 10
Oh my...oh my.... I got same situation. She's not the closest friend and she's also not the typical girl I thought who's gonna betrayed me...coz we loved LOVE. So I trusted her.....I told her to watch over my boyfriend's back yet after things seems going wrong with us (my boyfriend)I tried to cut off the relationship with him but I'm surprised because the thoughts that bothered me before we got break-up was true....gosh! They got intimate relationship at my back.
I was telling this because.....after that I got a better life. Forget them and build new life for you.:)
