which is better??

Philippines
February 4, 2010 7:55pm CST
which is better...to have a boyfriend far from you or near from you and everyday you see each other?? and waht are the consequences???
4 responses
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
i think it depends. im pretty sure that when you are still new n your relationship, you want to spend time with him every single day. but as years gone by you want to see him not as frequent as before but you still can see him. i think everyday seeing each other would mean losing your self individualism, you tend to depend on him and eventually your decision tends to steer towards the idea of not wanting to separate from him anymore. i think too much of everything isn't good. maybe a little space to enjoy do the things with your friends will balance things. but then again it depends.
• China
5 Feb 10
Of couse the later.A boyfiend far from you will bring more miss and it is painful.If somthing happen to you,he can help nothing.
@fsll518 (304)
• China
5 Feb 10
It depends on person, but generally speaking, long distance relationship is very difficult. You can always be confident about yourself, but it doesn't mean your partner doesn't change. If any change from either side, then there would be a victim, getting dumped without mercy. I was dumped and now I have to stuggle to continue my life. Love is not about one side passion. If possible, I hope you find someone near to you who can keep in touch and be sure both are willing to develop the relationship together.
@brymel25 (285)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
Well, it really depends on the ones involved. Some may choose to have a long distance love affair and some chose to be always near with the ones they love...Others may find it much better if they are far from each other because that will really prove if the love they feel is real. Meanwhile and I guess majority of the people wants to be be near their boyfriend/girlfriend to feel secured and so that they could hang out more often.