If values are different, will you maintain friendship?
@louisecheng11 (13)
China
February 5, 2010 2:03am CST
Hi guys, if oneday you find that your friend has changed a lot, his or her value becomes quite different from yours, and even you two have opposite values. What will you do? For me honesty, I find that it is impossible to maintain such friendship, coz it is impossible to become better.
Please kindly tell me your opinions, this is important for me. Thanks a lot.
3 responses
@prashant_pandey02 (40)
• India
5 Feb 10
I think thats the fun part in having friends no mater how different you are you can still remain friends. Those little fights about such trivial issues adds spice to frienships.
@louisecheng11 (13)
• China
5 Feb 10
Thanks. But this is an issue about values, sometimes it will cause serious problems. I am confused about his.
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
5 Feb 10
every human being, surely be changed, my friend .... especially in view of life which is owned by humans, surely be changed too ... You must be able to appreciate the changes he did, my friend ... and if you break the string of friendship just because the view of life or values that have different, it means you're arrogant
@varron (453)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
It depends upon the values. If the values can hurt me emotionally and that the value is no good for me them i prefer to sacrifice friendship. But first, i will try to determine if he/she is willing change or not before i decide to do it.
@louisecheng11 (13)
• China
5 Feb 10
Thanks. Your words do help. Howerver, my friend's value will not change, and his/her value will not hurt me indeed, but the central problem is his/her value has totally becomes the kind that I hate.
