i am sad gain

I am sad today too. But for the reason of pending request, I am not. I think you need to be understanding on that matter, don't be sad if you invitation is still pending,maybe some of our Mylot friends are just busy with their discussions that is why they forget about your invitation. And also be understanding on the matter of approving it, some may like you and some may not. Don't be hurt by that, it is just a way of life and people have their own decision. If you wish to change your avatar, you can do that. For real, I do not judge the person the way they looks, personality counts on me. It will come a time that your pending request will be approved don't worry.

Guess what? Some people never even look at their friend requests! So they may not have seen yours. I doubt if it is anything personal.I made a friend request and the person NEVER responded to it in a year. She comes to some of my discussions, but never approved or denied me. I had to feel she just does not notice. Some people want to see what kind of Mylot user you are and will wait and see if you post discussions that they can answer or not, or if you are just a spammer. If you have PENDING requests, you have not been denied. If you are denied, just go on, get over it. There are nearly 200,000 members of MyLot. I am sure there are a lot of people that would love to be your friend. If they do not accept your friendship, it is their loss.

What many Lotters seem to forget is that myLot is international and when some of us are here busy typing, others may still be asleep as it is the middle of their night. For example I am in Italy and it is lunchtime here while for you it is probably mid afternoon. Our friends in US have not woken up yet and started their day so maybe this is the reason that they have not yet accepted your request. Hang on and don't despair as I'm certain that many of them will be happy to see your request and will deal with it once they log back in here

Hey mutpal74, I am your friend in mylot and I do not want you to feel sad just that you have 15 pending friend request! Do not worry! Our friends at mylot won't let you down! The similar kind of thing happened to me as well! But now I have 0 pending and all 90 something people have approved my request!

Dear friend,why did you want to exit the mylot?unhappy here? oh,no!just leave!