Painful experiences in loving?

I experienced all the pain from my first boyfriend. He forgot our first anniversary because he was with this other girl. When he told me he was busy buying Christmas gifts I volunteered to help him, just to find out a month later(when I found out about their relationship) that it was for that girl's family. My first relationship/boyfriend wasn't a great one...almost 10 years has gone and all I can remember was the pain he brought me.

Hey careguarden, i believe that every person in their live have had bad,even awfull love experience. Me,myself been to one as well. Happen about 6 years ago, my x cheated on me with his aunts. At first it still rumors in his family and when i heard it i stood up for him and try to clean his name in his family. At the end his aunt admit to me personally that its true. They have been cheatin on my back since first year i'm with him. Can u imagine how i felt? i stood up for him in front of his family and yet he chicken out to admit it. Now i know tho i need to be more realistic in loving a person, don't just love with heart use your mind too, this is what i've warn myself with. With that experience it make me stronger and wiser in choosing my partner.

hello, all you mentioned are hard to accept but they are all painful experience in loving... i do experience them all, but those experince just lead to my choosing my partner right now... thanks for them i find my loving hubby... maybe this painful experiences just telling you they are not the one for you...