One word to describe your situation now and why?
By bypbyp
@bypbyp (37)
Philippines
February 5, 2010 9:03pm CST
If i were to describe my situation now, the word that i can express and define would be, "CONFUSED". I am confused in everything i do. I just have this feeling that things from the past would invade again my present situation. Though i have learned how to deal with it but still there are memories that keep me haunting. Memories that are so regretting. I know i cannot bring back the past but the pain is always there even if you tried to live it with confidence and faith. I just hope and pray that everything will be okay by then.
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@Cherlove (20)
• China
6 Feb 10
The word I will use is also confused. I always admire the kind of women who are independant, confident and beautiful. I want to be one of them. As a university student I have a lot of aspiration. But I don't know where to start from. Most of my classmates think I'm quite, wordless and unimportant. I just want to change their minds. I want to be the centre. All these I don't know where to start from and how to do.I'm quite confused.
@bypbyp (37)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
Hi....i was quite attentive hearing your feeling "CONFUSED". Please do not let yourself be inferior to others. We have different assets in which others do not have. Just be yourself and if you find out that you need to get out of your shell to have change, then go for a better change. Not just change then you are not at ease and comfortable. Do not compare yourself to anyone. Let others have their own abilities and personalities. I am pretty sure that you have your own unique assets that you have not appreciated it now. Try to discover those things and be proud of what you have. Even a small asset that will help you appreciate and give you freedom to explore and grow at the same time. Do not force yourself to be in the center just to get attention from others. Focus to yourself now and ask guidance from God what are things you need to undergo and change for a better one. Let your classmates think what you are. They are not the ones who feed you. The most important is if you know you are not hurting others by being yourself, then go for it. Classmates who does not appreciate who you are, are not becoming true friends. So find someone in your class who you think can be your good friend in good or bad terms. Then if you found that true friend, cherish and treasure her/him with good friendship. Being in the college days, this is where the stage of growing up where lots of questions are being raised. Environmental and peer factors are considered the most influential factors that you mostly involved to. So do not worry what you are right now, it is a matter of knowing what you want in life and be contented in what you have. Face your past with confidence, Handle your presence with faith and plan your future without fear. God bless my friend.
@rapunzelcat (271)
• United States
6 Feb 10
Stagnant. Every aspect of my life needs to change or improve. I can't figure out where to start so I just sit here, well, stagnating! I have taken at least a baby step toward something positive, though, by starting to become more active here on mylot.
@garfield_lemia (108)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
sad. cause I found out that there is something fishy going on between my boyfriend and his ex girlfriend..
@celestialpurity (67)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
it will be insomnia, for me. it is truly my current status. it's 1.32 am in the morning at my country, but i still can't get my eyes closed even though i know this isn't good for my health.
btw, bypbyp, sometimes i felt something like that too. especially when i regretting something from the past. but it will be healed as the time flies by. i hope you will feel better soon too :)
@cecillecarmela (3818)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Hi there ;) Well first of all I'd like to say that your discussion is creative and simple.. which caught my attention :)
So anyway. If there's one word to describe my situation now.. probably that would be GUIDANCE.
Hahaha why? I so need guidance these days. Several job opportunities knocked, and the last one (which was just this afternoon) came from my uncle. It seems too good to be true, but I can see that the testimonies of those in the job are REAL because my uncle himself rose from the ranks because of the job opportunity. Plus, it's not really my line to be on business/ sales that's why I'm really thinking THINKING thinking.. and THINKING.. if this is really for me.
I just need guidance from God to give me a sign from heaven if this is really for me. So that's it. Take care and God bless ;)
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
hi bypbyp!
"SAD"
because I am sad. There's this situation in my life that occurred recently that makes me so sad and upset. Until now, I don't seem to be statically happy (as usual), I always think of this "certain" event/thing almost all the time and it makes me sad evey minute of the day. Oh Lordy, hope I could pass this test of yours. 
But you know, no matter how hard it is to be in this state of emotion, I always bear in mind that God will not let us face any challenges alone. He is always here to guide us. Right? 
Even if I'm sad, I'm hopeful that everything will turn out good and be perfect again someday.
Happy Lotting!
because I am sad. There's this situation in my life that occurred recently that makes me so sad and upset. Until now, I don't seem to be statically happy (as usual), I always think of this "certain" event/thing almost all the time and it makes me sad evey minute of the day. Oh Lordy, hope I could pass this test of yours. But you know, no matter how hard it is to be in this state of emotion, I always bear in mind that God will not let us face any challenges alone. He is always here to guide us. Right? Even if I'm sad, I'm hopeful that everything will turn out good and be perfect again someday.
Happy Lotting!
@ellayuri (47)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
hello to you Ms. Bypbyp. On my side the word that can express my situation would be DISCONTENTED. Why? I have a lot of things to do. In my work as soon as possible i am trying my best to do the task and finish it easily. Without thinking and realize at the end of the day your mind and body meets stress and tire. Well this is life everything you do will pay you back in return.
@deenaly (162)
• Malaysia
6 Feb 10
Mine? It's DISAPPOINTED. My best friend told me that he's probably come to visit next weekend. Since I'm really looking forward to meet him, I planned a lot of activities in my mind. Today he said he's not going to come here. So my hope shattered, and I feel very DISAPPOINTED. But I calmed myself down and started to think. "I'll be going home soon, and he works at a place near my house, so why would I be fussy about him not coming to visit me?". So then I feel less DISAPPOINTED because I realized I can always visit him afterwords.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
A perfect word to define my situation is Struggling. I'm in my early 20s and there remains a lot to be learned. I struggle alot because of my limitations as a human being. I struggle about the harmful world we live in. Even my stomach is struggling from hunger or that I feel parched because of thirst. I wish to say enjoying but its a partial truth.
@Sallyso (12)
•
6 Feb 10
My word would be "STANDBY" as I just feel that every aspect of my life is on standby at the moment. I was made redundant a couple of months ago and it is almost impossible to find a job in Spain (where I have been living for the past 25 years). My last relationship turned out to be disaster, he turned out to be a love rat. My son has just moved to Madrid so no sign of seeing him on a regular basis anymore. So, what is left? Not a lot really, just have to be patient and optimistic that things will change I suppose eventually and then I can come out of standby mode and find direction.
