this is my friend's life what do you think? please suggest...
By adindaima
@adindaima (48)
Indonesia
February 5, 2010 11:47pm CST
this story of my friend. he doesn't work. he was the first child of 6 siblings. 3 of them still school. his father got cancer and his mother got heart disease and cholesterol.what should he do if they died while now so hard to find a job. he must still pay his 3 siblings to school. please tell me what i must tell him. thanks for your advice
3 responses
@ghieptc (2522)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
I think he must plan & take action on his future. If his parents will going to die soon, he must act now for he will take greater responsibility & he must realize it first than what are his abilities or qualification to work. About his 3 siblings, he must take care the responsibility of raising them & find a job that suits from him. And ask friend help where to look for a job.
@adindaima (48)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
thank for your response. i agree with you that he must take plan. he still need job, and it's very hard to get becouse he did'nt have any qualification to work
@adindaima (48)
• Indonesia
9 Feb 10
yeah, i think you're right. maybe he must find someone who kindly want to give him a job.
@Rhazelle (356)
• Canada
6 Feb 10
Even if the siblings are in school (if it's high school) they can still get a part-time job to help out =/
Or just tell them to work harder for scholarships. And apply for bursaries.
I really don't know though, I've never encountered a problem such as this even amongst friends.
Tell them to be good to their parents too; don't anger them too much or the stress'll speed up the dying process.
@adindaima (48)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
thanks for your advice. but the problem is they still kid. they are very spoiled.they grew up with everything available for them
@imran_40196 (21)
• India
6 Feb 10
Hi friend,
I think he has to go for a work depending on his qualification. If he was not got a job then he had to for any work because his family situation is not good. I think his family now depending on himself. He can apply for a government help because his father and mother both are patients now. So government will help him. It will be useful for him.
@adindaima (48)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
thanks for your response. yes, i agree with you. in my country, government can't help actually. because too much people more need help than him. maybe in your country, people who suffer will get help.
