do you want to get married someday???
By prityme
@prityme (92)
Philippines
February 6, 2010 12:25am CST
some people really like to get married especially for the teens who are really inlove of each other.. but sometimes, those people who get married are just ending up into a divorce... and some are just marrying somebody because its for their own sake..
so, what do you want it to be for you?
3 responses
@bluangel628 (383)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
Deciding to get married is a risk all of us takes that is why one must think it over before saying "I do.". Since divorce and annulment of marriage had been legalized and accepted, everyone thinks of marriage as something you should try first and if it's not meant to be, you can readily say "let's get a divorce". But no, it should not be the mentality of people. People should keep in mind that when you marry someone, you should be ready, mentally and emotionally of possible turmoils that will come with it. Would you expect a smooth sailing relationship given the fact that these two people being joined in marriage had lived and practiced two different cultures and had maintained two different values? No. So not all marriages are perfect, that's why a lot ends in divorce and annulments. But come to think of it, if people would just learn to be able to adjust with the diversity and uniqueness of each person, there would be no divorce nor annulment of marriage. Respect, commitment, trust, understanding, open communication and love are the main ingredients to a lasting marriage. For me, I am willing to take the risk of getting married to someone whom I have decided to spend the rest of my life.
@prityme (92)
• Philippines
10 Feb 10
wow!!that was very inspiring of yours... yah your right that marriage is a risk for all of us and that many couples are ending up to be annuled or divorce.. to those couples who are just ending up divorce are the one who does not satisfy of what they have in their life or they are not yet ready... some couples are just getting married because of their strong feeling that they feel but as years past, they will realize that they are wrong... in entering marriage, you are suppose to leave all the teenager life that you had before and face the new chapter of your life being with your husband or wife... we have to keep our word seriously, " I DO",! :D
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
15 Feb 10
Of course I want to get married the problem is, I still have no boyfriend,lol!the marriage is depends on how couple managed the situation. I don't think everybody has the same love story and marriage story. If people are getting divorce then maybe because they failed to look on the core of their marriage, its value and deep meaning. I always believe in the sanctity of marriage and emotional maturity, financial readiness and deep faith in God are the best ingredients of a lasting and happy union.
@hypemaster (24)
• Jamaica
10 Feb 10
hmm. I am hoping to get married someday, but I don't want to get married because I see my friends doing it. Getting married is a big step and should not be taken lightly.
I want to get married because I want to have kids and have my own family. Also because it's nice to know that in the evennings after a long day at work you have someone to go home to and just relax and talk to.
