If your husband or partner is erresponsible what will you do?
By meldred
@meldred (94)
February 6, 2010 1:44am CST
We have a problem with my sister, Her husband is so erresponsible..we don't know if He still love my sister or not. They have 4kids, one is with my mother & the 3 are with my sister. When her husband go to the city & look for a job, her husband will not send any to my sister...(previously more than two years), then last October her husband again ask her that He will go to the city again to find a job...& since that day my sister did not hear anything from her husband & she even could reach his cellphone.We tried convencing my sister to go back to our hometime in my parents but she disagree co'z she still want to wait her husband. What do you think? Is her husband still love my sister or not anymore? this happened twice already.
3 responses
@alen1982 (63)
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
Your sister is a very nice woman and she deserve to be loved...she has to move on may her husband found another because if he really love your sister no matter how far or where he is he will find a way to communicate with his family specially with his wife....your family have done your part for your sister but its really up to her to decide.. just be there for her no matter what...
@lldeguzman (58)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
I believe that your sister is still blinded by the love. I know someday she will realize that her husband does not really fall in love but it would take time.
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
6 Feb 10
..hi.. I couldn't answer your question about your sister's husband if he still loves her.. but one thing that I'm sure of is that your sister still loves him that's why she is still waiting for him hoping that her husband will return.. However, try your best to explain things to her.. It will be hard for her to go back to your hometown so you will have to be patient and more understanding to her.. As for me, maybe I would not wait for my husband any longer.. he's irresponsible and I don't think he loves if that's the attitude.. So I have to face life on my own.. I will focus my attention to my child and move on.. Irresponsible husbands don't deserve to be loved.. they've got married then all of a sudden leaving their family just like that.. How unworthy he is.. I wouldn't even spare my time thinking of him..
