what is your biggest tragedy you are going through right now?
By dragonflyfli
@dragonflyfli (5528)
United States
12 responses
@rakesh162 (131)
• India
15 Nov 06
i'm in love with a women what do i do?
rakesh162 (50) 2 hours ago
some one please tell me wat do i do - if i'm in love with a women who is 7 years elder than me? i'm 23 -she's 30
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
the age difference is not that big. i think you'll be fine. does she love you back?
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
aww, well maybe you can tell her how you feel so she knows and see what happens.
@rakesh162 (131)
• India
15 Nov 06
she just wann me as friend - she hangs out with me offen, what does she want - just sx! i donna?
@jamie11982 (1658)
• United States
15 Nov 06
The hardest thing for my family right now is when the doctor took me out of work in september due to pre term labor at 33 weeks for my 4th child. Right now we are living on my husband pay check which he only gets every two weeks and on top of that the tire on the driver side of my car fell off last week with me and all of the kids in the car. Thank god no one got hurt and i knew what to do. Now we are up over our heads in bills and trying to figure out what to do until i get my first paycheck at the end of the month. I get to go back to work friday so i know that things will be getting beter it's only a matter of time.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
wow. you are very brave! Sounds like you are working hard to suport your family. I congratulate you on your new baby!!!!
Take it easy :)
thanks for sharing with me!
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
16 Nov 06
all respect for you ! keep up the good work.. Take care !
@jamie11982 (1658)
• United States
15 Nov 06
I have learned a few years ago that no matter how much you would like to have your life just stop until you are ready to move it things don't happen that way. You always take what life hands to you. You can either bukel under the presure or take what life hands you and try to make something good out of it... I take the secand one because life is much much better that way and we are all happy. Yes i do want to help my family. We can't make the bills unless i do work and i enjoy my job.
@mauterershelley (570)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Getting my life back to normal after Hurricane Katrina.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
wow. i hope everything has gone some what smoothly inthe recovery. i know that is a very devistating thing to go through. i was living in alabama when that occured. i remember how devistating it was and i met alot of people from that area who were on the road out finding a new home. its scary.
thank you for sharing.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
wow. Are you happy now or still trying to replace alot of belongings that you lost? I hope you like it in Ohio!
@mauterershelley (570)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Yeah I lived in Louisiana when it hit but left the day before and went to Alabama until we heard we could not go home so then we came to Ohio. I've been back home about 3 times but there's nothing there for me anymore so now I live in Ohio. No more hurricanes for me. I still have family there, though.
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
15 Nov 06
My biggest problem right now is my marriage. My husband and i have been separated for 4 months now and have been trying to work things out...sometimes it seems like it will never be the same even if we do get back together eventually... We were always soo close throughout our marriage, then all of the sudden we started arguing a lot and it just escalated from there...
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
that is always hard. But remember it is somewhat normal since so many people go through the same thing. it can be hard to live with the same person day in and day out. I hope you can get past the differnences and move on "with eachother" becasue you married for a reason. love
thank you for sharing.
@jamie11982 (1658)
• United States
15 Nov 06
You two need to get someone from the outside of the family and friend circle to sit down and help you take care of the issues that you have. I went throu something like this about 3 years ago with my ex now hubby. Once we solved the issues we got back together and married a year later.. We just needed a nutural place to talk everything out.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
aww. that sucks. i hate those .. they seem to affect the rest of life at least for me it does. I hope you can get it all cleared up soon. thanks for sharing!)
@ElusiveButterfly (45940)
• United States
15 Nov 06
My husband lost his job 1 month after I did. Now we are struggling to pay bills. The good thing is we have our health and our family does as well.
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
15 Nov 06
Not enough money to pay bills, as my husbands hours have been cut down.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
hmm that sucks really bad. I understand how that feels. I hope he finds a new job or a second one and you can go back to your regular life. thanks for sharing,.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
ok thats vague but acceptable .. hope your luck gets better.or worse i dont know.
@sandypandy (250)
• Australia
15 Nov 06
I feel blessed at moment.. only thing I have is a daughter in law but the son loves her so I suppose I have to find something good about that liar ..
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
sorry but i had a laugh over the last comment about "the liar".... well, all i know is that if she doesnt love him back she will let him know one way or another. and if she does love him then they can learn to look past personal faults
@illusion_3716 (1380)
• India
15 Nov 06
No sleep.... Work all the time and girl friend Always sngry and irate...
any suggestions
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
yeah. get more sleep, take a sick day and stay away from your girlfriend for a while.
@dragonflyfli (5528)
• United States
15 Nov 06
you were suposed to answer my question but i guess you dont feel like it.. i supose i have to respond to you though.
