Telling Lies.....

My husband does this too without thinking. He exagerates almost everything ,but everyone knows this and he doesnt hurt anyone with the exgerations.I didnt know there were other like this.His are usually about money and work.Say we have a $236 electric bill, he just rounds it up to $400.

first of all, i'm very sorry to hear about your prob, dear kmahony. but in my opinion, there will be times where telling the truth is harder than making some cover up. i don't know why is your husband lies to you, but since you wrote that he is a good man, i just can assume that maybe he did it because it will hurt your feelings or so. he's doing some white lies. but again, don't care whenever its black or white, lie is a lie. if i were you, i would ask my husband with a natural, usual tone, about things i want to know. if his answer is different from what i've known (or heard from someone or so), i will politely tell him what i know about the problem and ask him why his description is different. i hope he will realize that his wife already know that he is lying and soon he will start to tell the truth i hope your problem can be cleared soon, kmahony

Hi, kmahony610. If your husband is telling lies than there is no telling what all he has lied about to you, his wife. I have lied many times in my life. But, there is one thing that I try to never lie is during my marriage. This is a scared bond here. The truth should be told at all times. You know there probably is many people in my life that tell lies, and I would not even know about it. Some people can lie so good that you will never know that they are lying. If he is not capable of telling you the truth, then you may need to look really hard at your marriage then. If he can tell the truth and be honest with you, you should stay in this marriage, but if he can't, You should leave the marriage along with him and his lies. He is being deceptive and that is not ever so good to be like this in a marriage. There should be no boundaries and no secrets.

Honestly, I won't be able to stand with a husband who lies even small things. I think you should talk to your husband about it. Do you know why he lies? And what kind of things does he lie about? I think there must be a reason for him to do this.

Hi friend I have a better solution for you.Just so this post to your hubby and make him realize your concern about his telling lie.Also make him realize that you really have the guts to accept and honor his truth.

hi.. have you ever made a talk to your hubby abt this?? i also came across a person who lies for all silly things and also big things... a better way is to speak abt thi to him so that u can avoid bitterness in your relationship... hope he ll understand your concern for him... good luck..

Maybe the first thing that you should do is talk to your husband.. Lying is not good for a relationship. How could you be real with someone who's not honest with you.. trust is one of the basis of relationships but how can you trust someone who lies all the time? I believe that both of you should deal with it.. Lying is like a termite, who in time would bring the foundation of your relationship down.. deal with it now before its too late..

I have a similar problem with my husband. He exaggerates a lot, often because he seems to have such a need to be in the right. He never lies about big things that I've noticed but his small lies have led me to disbelieve a lot of what he says. It is causing major problems in our relationship.

It is every man nature to lie, i guess. Have you ever confronted your husband about that? You two have to talk, and also check if there are things that you did, or doing that keeps him doing it over and over again.

..hhmm... ..i think.. .. its a big deal.. .. if u lie.. .. in the other.. people.. ..thats why.. .all things.. ..u know.. .. i guess.. lier..people. are sinners.. .. in their lives.. already..