My friend is in love with a married man
By rubypatson
@rubypatson (1840)
India
February 6, 2010 11:18pm CST
She is very much in love and they are very happy together, but its not the right thing as he is married, although he is not very happy with his wife, bbut still its no excuse to have a relationship with a man married, its nice to see her very happy she has no plans of splitting up the family but in the long run where will it all lead to heartbreak, and its not the right thing too, i am not sure how to stop her from this what do you feel about the whole thing
4 responses
@longsdogin (454)
• China
7 Feb 10
Hi,ur friend involves in other's family so it hard for me to give a suggestion.I think the result may decide by the man,he must choose one ur friend or his wife.I can say it won't last long if that man want to keep both relationship with ur friend and his wife.Someone gonna to be hurt at last.All the best.rubypatson.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
7 Feb 10
Has this very happy friend of yours ever sat down for a while and thought about the wife? Maybe she should stand in this women,s shoes for a moment. And then she will realize what she and that man are doing to someone else. One thing she always have to remember, you can never build your happiness, onto someone elses unhappiness. Both of them should stop this, right now, or he should get a divorce.
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
7 Feb 10
If he was really in love with your friend, and unhappy with his wife--he would leave her. If he won't leave his wife that should be a BIG sign to your friend that he is just using her.
It is definitely never a good idea to get involved with a married man. It's not right and it is Totally unfair to the other woman.
Your friend needs to stop seeing him until he leaves his wife and gets a LEGAL divorce...
@ShannStout (46)
• United States
7 Feb 10
sooner or later your friend will want what he has, Marriage. She will want to be his wife and declare that he shall leave his wife for her. This usually turns ugly, and will end in heartbreak. So she needs to let this go and move on. She needs to face it that he will not leave his wife for her for whatever reason.
