Confession of mistakes?
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
India
February 6, 2010 11:44pm CST
We tend to do some mistakes and they results in some bitterness between a partner, friend. We try to hide them and the fact is known to your partner or friend by someone else. It might be dangerous when you friend comes to know some secrets or bad thing about you which you have not told him, this might turn to separation as well.
We do realize our mistake by own and I speak to GOD on this. Do you think we should confess our mistakes with our partner or the one who is the victim or the one who is receiving this?
This might again hurt your current relation, so what do you prefer - Keep your secrets with you are confess those before time runs away and you are caught?
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10 responses
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
7 Feb 10
Honesty is the key, and keep yourself check to be honest is the hardest thing to do. Maybe that is human nature. We all have our secrecy sometimes. But if you share your daily life with someone, you should keep yourself to be honest, and tell your partner the truth if he/she deserve to know it. It was just my personal opinion on this one.
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@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
12 Feb 10
As you correctly pointed - we should be honest in all the relations, it does matter a lot for a long lasting relation otherwise a relation may be just a day event and gone away very soon.
@ian1979 (47)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
I believe that it is better to confess our mistakes rather than the person concern would know it from somebody else. We are accountable to ourselves and to the people that is affected by our mistakes. Confessing one's mistake is not really popular with most people but it is the right thing to do.. Try being in the shoes of the one you have committed the mistake with.. How does it feel? I know you would feel bad. So start confessing and be free of guilt..
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@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
12 Feb 10
secrets in our life make us weak that is my feeling so better to speak that with someone so that we are strong enough.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
Hi AjaySinghBaghel,We commited mistakes because it is a human nature.But the best way is to Confessed what we've done to our lord God first And asked for forgiveness.No need to tell others to know.It may have sometimes conflict.Have a nice day!.
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@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
8 Feb 10
Yes, there may be conflicts but if you do not tell and someone else tell that to your partner, things would be worst so better to tell before someone else. If the secret is not known to anyone other than you, That is too good :)
@happy2512 (1266)
• Philippines
7 Feb 10
If I were you I'd rather keep it on my own & not share it to even my closest friends but surely I will ask from God forgiveness for the mistake I have done but I have to see to it that I will not commit it again. If it will cause the relationship to break then I will keep it till the day I will die.
@moneymaker92 (394)
• United States
7 Feb 10
I think, in general, on should confess...There may be certain circumstances where it might be better not to, but not telling could only make it worse if they find out. If they are truly your friend, then they should understand and forgive you if it was an honest mistake.
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@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
8 Feb 10
the one who understand you will forgive and that is much better if things are clear to your friend.
@thunderbala (748)
• India
7 Feb 10
gnerally one has to confess the secrets to ones partner... relationships always become stronger sharing such things which if not results in break up or bitterness..
as we know broken pieces of mirror can never be joined again,better to shar your hidden secrets with them so that there is a strong bond in your relationship..
good luck..
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@sarahruthbeth22 (43143)
• United States
7 Feb 10
When I Know I did wrong and I am truly sorry , I confess the wrong to whomever I wronged . And I do it because I want to , not out of fear of G-d or being caught.
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
8 Feb 10
Yes, we should have fear from god and that leads to satisfaction towards our partner if things are clear.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
7 Feb 10
I absolutely agree with you. And to be honest with your partner is the key term. Hope that everyone will understand it.
@AjaySinghBaghel (5506)
• India
8 Feb 10
True, we should be open for discussion whether its a mistake or an achievement. At least with you life partner.
Thank you for the response.
@dasj20 (127)
• India
8 Feb 10
h
we are all humans,the basic nature of humans is making falls.
who can rectify all these falls,then he/she became the perfect man and he/she is the roll model to others (for examples lord jesus,gandhi etc).
so don't bother about any thing,pray god and continue good journey.
all the best
have nice day
@yresh12 (3212)
• Philippines
8 Feb 10
Making a decision is really hard especially when you're torn
between being honest with you're partner for him/her to not get
disappointed or not telling him/her the truth to keep the relation going...
I think that honesty in a relationship is very important. We can't hide something forever... When the one that is very close to you will know what you did, everything that you've been through could be easily forgotten. You get hurt and that person gets hurt as well.
He/She may get hurt when you tell about it but it hurts even more when they know about it from a different person.
