You want me with you? then you have to respect some rules...

I am not a ruler. In life any one can enter at any moment. But conditional arrival in life looks like a contract. And the life is not a contract. Life is like the flow of water that never follows any certain rules. In life all are situational. And we all react to the situation. How can one promise in this complex world that he never tell a lie. I have seen many innocent lie that are more helpful than harmful truth. I never impose any condition for anyone as entry pass to my life.

I just require the guy to love me and always show me that he does. Quote from Moulin Rouge "The greatest thing you'll ever learn is to love and be loved in return." As long as he constantly shows me love I'll be lenient to almost everything.

Well maybe it just a simple rule, makes me happy with understand what i want and what i need, respect my privacy, and still honored me when we are bond in an argue.

my partner came in to mine and my kids life just over 5 years ago,i know he struggles with my rules,especially the ones to do with the kids,coz he bought his kids up completely different to the way i bring mine up

I think a part of the relationships is about understanding what gets on the nerves of your significant other and do not do them! I make them clear at the first 2 weeks or so, so the girl I am dating knows what are MY rules.I have some over here: 1) Maybe your friends will last forever, and our relationship will end, but that doesn't mean I am not equal to them. 2) No, you can not see your ex. NO! 3) No, I will pay for every single dinner I want, stop telling me to not do so! 4) Plastic surgery? No! There are many others too that I can not recall now. But you have to remember this: If you want someone to respect your rules, you have to respect THEIR rules too.. If your rules although, are kind of the opposite, I guess it just can't happen for you to be together, by the time none of you want to step back.

your behaviour to other people should be like what you expect for yourself.

to take me the way I am and not push me into being something else.

thats right but we respect our self but people of the world are very bad for further info reply me . so we connect

The only rule I have is to be honest, both with me and with themselves. Lets face it, having rules to be obeyed is not really letting the person be themselves. If a person has to follow a bunch of rules, then its not about the person being themselves, its about the person being who you want them to be. A relationship is not a dictatorship, its a partnership. Just be yourself and be honest!

When me and my current husband started dating and then got married we had two rules for each other.... Don't cheat, and don't hit.... If you don't do either one of them why would you need to lie so that about covered everything we were both looking for in a relationship.....

Hello, The single most important aspect I would look for would be a true faith in god. I have some reasons to expect this from a person who would want to be with me. I think, if one is a true believer, she will essentially have most of the good traits. There was a time when I was completely atheist. I believed in myself and none else. I doubted the existence of God. And I observed carefully that on those days I always carried a darkness with me. My undue pride, overconfidence, selfishness and other things that I consider now as bad traits, never left me for a single minute. I seldom found peace when I had that kind of personality. Now, that I've turned into a true believer, I know what true strength is. I have confidence but I got rid of pride. Self awareness has replaced the selfishness. So many changes came along with the faith in God. I want my best woman to be a religious, loyal to God, as I think, that is the best thing any human being can achieve. God bless you all

The only rule I can see giving my woman would be to not bother the things in my study room. Don't clean, don't mop, don't shelve. Leave it alone! Let me be the moron who worries about misplacing something. And I've been "trained" as some woman put it, to know that the kitchen belongs to my woman. Some rules, people should already know about, some rules you learn while you're with the person, and some rules you tell right from the beginning. My only other rule would be that I don't serve dictatoresses. You, the woman, might get your way most of the time, but I couldn't stand it if I had to give you your way ALL of the time.

I don't think there is particular rules for me to reject someone running into my life.but for love relationship,there are some primary common sense such as mutual respect,including respect parents of each other's,don't lie or do anything which will hurt each other,consider things from every angle...actually,when two people fall in love and want to live together,they will try to find and to adapt the "rule" of their partner.

I believe that there should be boundaries in relationships, not rules. Boundaries can change throughout your life depending on it's progression and there's nothing wrong with having them. Your first goal is to be a healthy, happy you. One should ALWAYS put themselves first in a relationship. If you're not healthy then how can you be any good to your partner. Relationships are not about completing yourself like the famous Jerry Maguire phrase, your partner shares themself with you. Really I guess it comes down to semantics: rules or boundaries. Both can be considered the same thing depending on your interpretation. Ultimately, one should never sacrifice their morals, values or beliefs for someone else - not if you do not want to. Mutual respect and flexibility are just two of the requirements in a successful relationship.

My rules are: Love me for who I am Respect me Don't cheat on me Don't yell at me or abuse me emotionally Don't abuse me physically Don't abuse me sexually Treat me as an equal partner Don't threaten my independence And in return I'll show the same consideration for you in all categories.

My list is short. listen to me and never lie to me. If he really listens , it will be easy to stay together. but if i feel I'm not being listened to,I'll stop talking and then I'll find someone who Will listen and it will be over1 and he Has to tell the truth. One lie and I'll assume that every else he says to me is a lie. Even if it a weather report!

Hi, Ice! I insist upon respect, honesty and supportiveness. All must go in both directions. Without those, a relationship can't be REAL!

I just have only one rule for a guy who wants to court me, it's being honest all the time though this thing is really hard to get especially for a guy. Honesty can make the relationship last longer but not all people are perfect and sometimes they lied for a better reason. But for me, though it can hurts me I just want him to be hones so that our relationship will be open with each other.

i think my life surrounding lots of rules. such as the equal relationship between lovers, the free choice of the babies' gender. i agree to people must follow my rules when he want to live with me, however, my rule is not mean. if he is not able to follow them. i do not think that we can get together in the future.