Do you think that a man and woman can be friends....

So, I guess what you are saying it's not possible :) The friendship eventually evolves into something else. I have had only one good male friend that have enjoyed his company and felt "safe" hehehee..maybe naive huh? lol. Even though we shared our personal issues our friendship used to function mostly around "work stuff". Once we didn't work together we kept in touch and saw each other again but my life took a turn of 360 degrees. I became a mother of back to back kids(very short age gap). Sometimes I didn't even had time to take a shower and talking on the phone was out of the question. I somehow managed to call him from to time at work and tell him about my things going on with my kids and he would tell me his stuff and also work stuff. The last time I talked to him it was around the time my last kid was born. He was happy to hear me and the same on my part but we didn't have that much to tell each other and my life was CRAZY with my little kids. Even though we haven't talked I would feel happy and not ackward talking to him again. We had a nice friendhip and a great time laughing at silly things so I will always cherish those moments.

Oh I forgot..I checked the link and read a little bit and laughed too :)) It's a little long so I will bookmark it and read it when I have more time. Thanks

Absolutely! Based on my experienced. Just finished the article most especially the challenges that the author provided. Thanks for sharing your experience... You know I have male friend who was married. I stop communicating with him after we (other friend) met his wife. He consider me as one of his best friend, because we've been friends since high school, though we've been apart for how many years. I'm thankful for that but I rejected it, I consider his wife's feeling. I can't go into details, I just wish you get my point. It's complicated anymore.... though we are still friend but not too close.